ok my boyfriend has moved out of town like 8 hours away and we still go out. we talk 2 eachother everyday still like normal couples. he tells me he love me everyday and all day. he calls me everyday and tell me where he going and what he is going 2 be doing. and yesterday we were on the phone for more than 5 hours mayb about 11 hours and when he was around his friends he wouldnt say nothing so when they left he told me everything that was on his mind right than. he is very sweet but i can't like trust him 8 hours away and i told him he got a little mad so what do i do?
2006-08-13 12:13:46 · 28 answers · asked by luv @!nt @lw@yz 3@$y 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Learn to trust him and have confidence in him. If you can't then you might as well just break the relationship off.
I would suggest calling him and talking to him. He probably didn't want to talk around friends because he felt that the conversation was too personal
2006-08-13 12:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just give it some time, I mean if you feel he is worth it, then work around it. I mean set up some dates where he can come and see you, or you go see him. It's a long distance, but well I'm sure you will do it for each other, and if not then just stay friends and move on to somebody else. I mean do what you feel is best, if you really can't trust him, and you really don't like the whole 8 hrs away thing. Then just move onto somebody else, if not that just work it out with him, I know you two will figure out something.
2006-08-13 19:19:28 · answer #2 · answered by Khalil S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you "can't trust him 8 hours away," why continue on with the relationship? As it is now, you are spending way too much time centering your universe around him. Talking on the phone for 11 hours? Find some other interests. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. If you can't trust him, would advise, breaking it off.
2006-08-13 19:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was faithful to you while you were close then trust him. I am a very jealous person and let me tell you from experience, that jealous (or lack of trust) will wreck a relationship faster than infidelity.
Don't go looking for things to support your fears, and don't let your mind wander about what you think he might be doing when he's not talking to you. Let him tell you about his day and take him at his word. The love and support you show him by not accusing or assuming will keep his heart focused on you.
I am married to the military and can tell you that distance is one of the biggest challenges you can face. What he does is completely out of your control. The only thing you can do is to love him, have faith and pray.
2006-08-13 19:24:14 · answer #4 · answered by Karen T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok-out of town relationships are hard enough even for grown ups. Sometimes impossible. You 2 sound very young and inexperienced. You have lots of maturing to do and you'll get that in time. Forget about clinging to each other- the best way to keep something or someone you cherish is to give them/it a long leash. Stay friends and remember school will be starting again soon and there's lots of fish in the sea...
2006-08-13 19:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like and awesome boyfriend even with the distance.I am in a similar situtation but mine is only an hour away.
You should trust your man coz its very important to him and this relationship. That would be the one thing that can break this (if he thinks you don't trust him coz no one wants to be with a woman who has no faith in him/the relationship).
Everytime you feel insecure ignore it and remind yourself how myuch you guys love each other and that you trust him. Don't tell him about this insecurity. My bf hates it too! We broke up once coz of it.
I hope this helps you. Good luck and I hope you guys will be together soon :-)
2006-08-13 19:21:24 · answer #6 · answered by Pudge_Monsta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy seems to really love you. You need to trust him, thats the only way a long-distance relationship can work. (Ldr's take love to work and it seems like ya'll have that!) Apologize and tell him that you're just really stressed right now and you're scared that he'll do something stupid because you're not around. The only reason that you should get out of this relationship is becuase you don't love him anymore. Good Luck, I really think ya'll will be alright.
2006-08-13 19:31:26 · answer #7 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You spend half the day on the phone with him, he calls you every day, you still date and just because he lives a few hours away you don't trust him? What is wrong with you? are you an idiot? or are you trying to find an excuse to break up with him so you can hang out with your locals?
2006-08-13 19:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl do not worry! Trust him, 8 hours away is nothing... when you love someone it don't matter how many miles away there is... just keep in touch with him, share your thoughts and tell him how much you still love him... good luck.
2006-08-13 19:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by laflaca1970 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
8 hours is a long way, but i had some friends that was dating like 24 hours drive away from each other for several years, they met at disneyworld and everything, yeah you'll have your up and downs but just look at it in a good way, sure they'll be other girls he might like but like is different from love so.
2006-08-13 19:19:12 · answer #10 · answered by azncashmoneyboi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋