In my case I found that right after we got married our sex life did actually seem to be dwindling. It was like we didn't have the passion that we once had. But thankfully, that didn't last very long. Right now our sex life is better than it has ever been before.
2006-08-13 12:20:45
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answered by Ash 6
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I guess in alot of cases YES it can be true but only becuz ppl get lazy and sex seems to become a chore for them ..they get caught up in the everyday life and stress caring for the children work bills ect and they forget what means the most to them ..I think its very important to ALWAYS make some ALONE time for you and the hubby I think as long as u do that and give him the attention he needs ur sex life will be fine.. ive been there and done it too and it sucked lol we talked about it and decided to make time for each others needs ...sex now is better then b4 we wer married but i guess that all depends on the person ..Id like to think that EVERY married couple crosses this bridge atleast once its easy to overcome it all u gotta do is have the want ..but different strokes for different folks ..married life dont have to get old or boring but u gotta put in the work to keep it going just like everything else ..
2006-08-13 19:34:03
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answered by tainted.luv 1
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Everyone is different. Keeping a healthy sex life after marriage is no different than any other aspect of marriage - it's something you both have to work at. It has its ups and downs, just like every other part of marriage.
The key is, you have to talk about it, not take it for granted and most importantly, keep it interesting.
It's really easy to let your sex life slide - life in general gets busy, especially if you have kids. But if you make an effort in all aspects of your marriage, sex should be one of them. It's important - it's one of the reasons you are together. It brings you closer together, and it strengthens your commitment to each other.
So the answer to your question is - it's up to you what happens to your sex life after marriage. Make it a point to keep it a priority, and it will be fine. Understand that sex is wrapped up in other things, and you will do even better. Make an effort to satisfy your spouse in other areas as well, and you will have nothing to worry about. The happiest, most satisfied couples aren't just having good sex, they are fulfilling each other's lives in every way - and that will get you laid... :)
2006-08-13 19:27:35
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answered by kendallsan 2
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Well, our sex life was great before we got married, but it is so much better now. I think it may because I had my tubes tied after my third child, and now we just can't get enough. I guess it is the fact we can have all the fun we want and don't have to worry about a surprise coming in nine months...lol.
2006-08-13 19:20:13
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answered by Crystal 2
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when you are married and living in the same home sharing the same bed....it does dwindle. I think it's because it's [sex] right there. there's no urgency to get it [sex] while you can. you don't miss it quite as much when it's right there in bed beside you. That's just my personal opinion.
On the other hand, this doesn't affect all marriages.
2006-08-14 09:20:59
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answered by NyteWing 5
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The Sex life gets worst normally people try to sugar coat it and say its spectacular its really not. If you had sex with your spouse before marriage then its spontaneous it feels like nothing you ever had before, it feels new and like your young when you get married you seem to tire out and everthing seems the same and not spontaneous anymore, I guess that's why they say you should wait until you get married.
2006-08-13 19:39:41
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answered by Mila 2
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We waited until after we were married. We have a great sex life.
2006-08-13 19:56:31
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answered by Anonymous
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I think it's all in the way you take care of things. For me it has got en better I' have been married for 12yrs. and the sex is better now then before I got married toys and oils keep it fresh and fun
2006-08-13 19:26:12
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answered by HONEY 2
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It only goes down the tubes if you let it....I've been married for 12 year and 3 kids later......sex is better than ever...!
2006-08-13 19:26:08
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answered by LL Aloha 1
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Its better when you married. Cause your in love with that person and that person love you. Sex is sacred and should be between a MARRIED man and women.
2006-08-13 19:31:36
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answered by ♥BlackBarbie™♥ 4
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