You see I don't what to be in his business and plus he might not believe me. But on the other hand I don't want to see him get hurt. What should I do?
2006-08-13 12:45:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
believe me she was kissing, hugging, all of that and it didn't look like they were friends, they looked way more than that.
2006-08-13 13:03:28 · update #1
Tell him! Even if it's not true, I'm sure he'll appreciate your honesty and friendship. But if it is true, you'll be glad that you told him the TRUTH.
2006-08-13 12:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by Panada 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why no longer wait to marry till you may both stay jointly? if you're married and residing aside, she will be in a position to apply it as an probability to mock your courting. Im sorry, your mom appears like a bully and identity anticipate a bully to act in that mocking way. purely tell her that you're engaged, you propose to marry and also you'll construct your existence with the guy you adore. it is your existence and your selection and if she has an problem with it, then tell her no longer to go back. also remind her you've purely as definitely stated no longer some thing, yet she is your mom, you've emotions for her (inspite of those are) and also you experience you would possibly want to tell her. i imagine it is the in hardship-free words way she will be in a position to understand your serious and question no longer some thing. You under no circumstances comprehend, she ought to marvel you and help it. in my opinion i do imagine she will be in a position to opposite it, yet in hardship-free words becuase she experience she cant administration or bully you anymore as you may have your guy to 'take care of' you and as a married female you grow to be a spouse previously you grow to be a daughter. I purely desire you're marrying for the right causes, no longer because he has continually been there and also you're used to him. i comprehend you've been with the aid of a lots, yet with the way your mom is and your rocky courting, it seems to me that you're nevertheless looking the position you want to pass in existence. if you're particular that your plans are going to be as they are, wonderful. I purely intend to be particular that your lifetime plans slot in jointly with his. Marriage in spite of everything is for existence, and it should not be taken gently even if you're 18 or 80. i imagine telling her will be precisely what you imagine that is going to likely be. If she receives mad and violent, go away. she will be in a position to have heard your message and also you dont favor to be there at the same time as she receives used to it. good success. Congrats of your engagement and your new existence. :-)
2016-11-30 01:36:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to figure out that. Casue ur friend might turn on u for saying u seen his woman with another man. If he don' t think she will cheat at all. But, if he think she will do something like that he will be glad u told him.Sometimes woman can lie the way out of things. Then she will make you look like u lying. Good luck
2006-08-13 12:57:26 · answer #3 · answered by sazzybmt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him because im sure she gonna be with another guy even if they get married and then he'l find out on his own and hel still end up hurt..tel him
2006-08-13 13:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by LilAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
type him an annonymous letter with facts and details and let him take it from there if he wants to know he will act on it if he wants to ignor it he wil throw the letter away and if he throws it away then just have his back when he catches her because what goes on in the dark comes to the light and even if he finds out for himself who's to say he will leave her?
2006-08-13 12:56:13 · answer #5 · answered by spagetti7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you shoould tell him, thats whats friends are for, if you dont tell him they may get married and the fiance may be the worse person for him.
2006-08-13 13:04:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM. don't risk it not being true. it couuld lead to a lifetime of hurt.
2006-08-13 12:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by e. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really none of your business.
Unless u and he are really good friends from way back and you don't care for her anyway. Also u really don't know about why she was with this other guy, he may have been a friend or a relative.
Don't start trouble unless u know the facts
2006-08-13 12:52:17 · answer #8 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell him... its better for him to find out sooner than later. The later he finds out the more drama there could be.
2006-08-13 12:52:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not worry tell her what is you saw.because its not bad thing
2006-08-13 12:56:23 · answer #10 · answered by saman f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oohh bummer , bet you wish you never saw anything... I'd talk to her ... there just might be a logical explanation.
2006-08-13 12:53:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋