Ok so I checked my bf phone bill today andthere was one specific number that he calls all the time. I called this number and I got a voice mail of some girl. I confronted him about it and he told me he works with her dad and he gave him her number. He said they are just friends, but I don't quite believe it. Do you think I should write her a massage just to let her know he has a girlfriend?
2006-08-13 12:41:29 · 48 answers · asked by maya 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No if he's playing the field you warning her off isn't gonna stop him and even if you did succeed at that he will only do it sooner or later. I really think you need to follow your instinct but also check the facts but be sure that if he is gonna cheat on you, he's gonna do it no matter what you do. Girl keep your dignity, there's plenty more fish in the sea!
2006-08-13 12:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by ♪♫♪♫♪♫♪♪♫♪♪♫♪♫♪♫♪♪♫♪♫♪♫♪ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW!
If he is giving his number away then you are wise for not believing that they are just friends, there is evidentally SOMETHING GOING ON. It shows that he has little respect or feelings for you.
I think you should NICELY tell this other lady that you are his girlfriend. The bad thing is, if you do the outcome may not be what you want or expect. They may end up cheating on you anyway. OR she may be a nice girl and respect that and tell him to back off.
I would be considering maybe dumping him because if he is cheating with one girl he will probably be cheating with others as well.
2006-08-13 12:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the thing is that you are playing with fire if you try to do that, either you get burned or you put the fire out. bascially my point is that if you do leave a message, and she is just friends, and your boyfriend finds out, he's going to be really upset, and you could really ruin his trust for you. I mean he told you the reason, so well he expects you to believe him. But well if you just believe him, then you aren't doing anything to ruin it, and you are actually doing something good. You are building faith and trust for him. You really and truly need to learn how to have faith and trust in him. Yeah you know what he could be cheating on you. But well still don't try to look for bad things, because if you go looking for it, you'll find it. So well you can still check on him, but well don't go doing anything stupid. Just make yourself the example that you have full trust and faith, because if you ever end up having a guy friend that you call from time to time, you don't want him snooping around.
2006-08-13 12:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by Khalil S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her, then leave him. I would bet money that he is cheating. Why dont you act like you already got a confession from your b/f when you call her. say he said all they did was kiss, but you need to know if there was more cause you found out today you had an std.
I do have to say that you must have a reason for checking his phone bill in the first place. thats kinda psycho.
2006-08-13 12:46:32 · answer #4 · answered by god 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah give him the benefit of the doubt. But why are you checking his phone bill, it seems to me that there is some trust issues between you guys. Even though I would let him keep talking to the girl and see what happens. Sometimes we girls have to be secure that our men arent gonna cheat on him. And one more thing look for the signs whether or not he is cheating but dont act on it until you are sure. Good luck!!
2006-08-13 12:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by skyblu513 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put her phone number on every tavern restroom wall as a free sex.
Put her phone number any place you can think of saying that she will give free sex.
Get down and nasty..
Oh, You more than likely have already lost your boyfriend, or, he would have told you about her much sooner..
Have a fun time doing this. Revenge is sweet.
2006-08-13 12:47:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... don't contact her at all. It'll make you look like the psycho girlfriend.
But keep an eye on him. If he really calls her all the time, I think he's definitely up to something. Look at his phone bill or check his outgoing calls.
2006-08-13 12:46:00 · answer #7 · answered by Lanani 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better still, call the number, looking for him there. When he's not there, you tell the voice on the other end that Sandra, his girl friend, is looking for him.
Let nature take its course
2006-08-13 12:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. this is something you have to work out with your bf. She has nothing to do with you and him as a couple. You should be able to trust him. If you call her, she might say there's something going on between your bf and her just to hurt you. People are evil! and besides, you can screw up your bf work! be careful and trust your bf, if not, you can't have a healthy relationship
2006-08-13 12:46:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in disbelief of what he says then keep callin the number until she replies....then when you get ahold of her just ask her what your bf told you. Or... you could tell him to call her in front of you for proof. Just remember "trust" is all in a relationship.
2006-08-13 12:45:19 · answer #10 · answered by italliansweety67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋