My ex, who I still love, broke up with me 3 weeks ago. I have been through a lot of ups and downs emotionally, but lately it has been down. There are a lot of other things going on that are bringing me down and stressing me out, and I guess not having him there for me is bringing me down farther. He is there for me, as a friend, which I appreciate. But, I am still in love and heartbroken, and still in so much pain. The silly thing is, I know so many reasons why we probably shouldn't be together anyways, and I know I deserve to find someone out there who truly needs me. But, loving someone who doesn't love you back anymore (the reason why he broke up with me-he fell out of love) is so hard. I know that the only answer is time, but I also know many people have been through this, so I guess I am just looking for some encouraging opinions. Everything in my life seems to be bad right now, and I am just trying to get through it.
2006-08-13 12:42:37 · 6 answers · asked by parachute 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just look at it this way
in 150 years from now who the hell is going to care?
go on with your precious life, you can do better,
and you have friends that will always love you, and want you to be around,
go and fall in love again,
and if his friend were your Friend and do not want you around then see old friend, or make new ones!
to start you off, Hi I'm gamemanual, nice to meet you,
now everyone say hi!
2006-08-13 13:05:02 · answer #1 · answered by gamemanual 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there! You are doing the right thing by choosing to go through it. It is never easy when a relationship that meant so much to you ends, especially in the midst of other problems in life. It feels like your whole world is crumbling down on you and you start asking why you're being punished so much. There is really nothing anyone can say that will ease the pain for you because progress is never swift nor easy. And in this case the only way is "through". Take heart in knowing you are not alone. If you take a look around you, there are others who have it worse. You WILL get through all of this, I promise. There is a saying that goes: "Adversity is the diamond dust that heaven polishes its jewels with". And always remember that if it doesn't kill you, it will only make you stronger.I hope this helps.
2006-08-13 13:09:17 · answer #2 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is full of changes. You are going thru an adjustment period. People come and go in our lives for a reason. When you meet the next great guy, you will look back on this experience and wonder why you were so upset. Trust me. Been there, done that
2006-08-13 12:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by Annie R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember everything happens for a reason... i was in ur situation like 5 yrs ago and only time did it's job. But remember God has a plan for all of us. Be patient and remember all good things come to those who wait. and everything worth having, is worth waiting for. I hope this helps
2006-08-13 12:51:06 · answer #4 · answered by sourgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to heck! <---that's the most encouraging this I could come up with, sorry.
2006-08-13 12:47:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
wana talk?
my yahoo id is lateinthenevening
lets talk...
and also try this site
http://www.lollie.com/gallery/heartache.html
2006-08-13 12:52:04 · answer #6 · answered by Ali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋