I have a feeling that she is upset at me or at something but when I asked her what it was she said she didn't know and didn't want to talk about it. I've tried having a conversation with her on AIM since then but she doesn't seem happy and she says very little. I asked her if she wanted to do something this weekend and she said she had work. She didn't say another day or when she's free we could hang out, she basically said she had work. It's been two days and we haven't talked. Whenever i'm online and she is, she doesn't IM me and she hasn't called me. I don't want to IM her because the conversation will be useless and like prying teeth to get something from her. What should I do, how should I feel about this?
2006-08-13 12:38:26 · 14 answers · asked by Mike 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Still have not talked to her, and she hasn't tried to talk to me, who makes the first move?
2006-08-15 14:55:13 · update #1
I think that she's realizing that since recently you've have a crush on her. And she's probably confused and nut sure if she likes you too, or if wants to risk a great friendship. I think you should visit her and talk to her in person about your situation. I guess the time has come for her to find out the truth.
2006-08-20 22:19:08 · answer #1 · answered by Petra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay available until the answer is obvious. She doesn't want to talk now, but she may later; If not, you will know how you feel when the situation is clear.
2006-08-13 19:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by DrB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mike - I have a conversation with someone like that today - just call her and talk it out. That's all you can do. Maybe you are just wrong and you will find out.
2006-08-13 19:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something else may be bothering her and she may not even be mad at you. Go to her in person (if possible) and say that if she wants to talk then you want to listen. Then don't hassel her about it. She will open up.
2006-08-13 19:43:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never know i mean it might not even be ur fault may she likes u but too shy to tell you. and thats why she is probably upset. all you have to do is try an talk it out andpray it works out.
2006-08-13 19:46:11 · answer #5 · answered by tv_braves_baseball 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it if its your best friend she will tell you the truth and respect you more for asking instead of avoiding. i know thats what gets me so upset. i would rather have it all out in the open.
2006-08-21 16:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by china 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have it out with her and all that would be over without much hitch to the whole issue.
Talk it out !
Straight out!
2006-08-21 18:53:52 · answer #7 · answered by smartserif 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come straight out and tell her you feel like theres something wrong in our friendship. and go from there.
2006-08-21 19:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by duc602 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go up to her, or her house, with flowers and just flat out tell her how you feel.
2006-08-21 18:01:04 · answer #9 · answered by v.a_hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her in person.
2006-08-21 18:43:28 · answer #10 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋