Family & Relationships - 13 August 2006

Im sitting here hiding under my sheets and I can hear the monsters in my closet...I was going to use my bra to hurl my IPOD in there like a sling and kill the little suckers....but my bras to small or either the IPODS to big....I thought of using it as a strangle weapon and jump in there with them in hand to hand combat....and hang them on my bra straps....but Im afraid of the dark to get out of my bed...My only thought is to set my IPOD on Ozzie music real loud and throw it in the closet with them like a hand grenade...perhaps smoking them out with that dry ice Ozzie uses at his concerts.....what do you think ? Any advise for me?

2006-08-13 19:23:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-13 19:22:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This pickup line is one of the best I've heard and I've said it to some of my friends and they seem to like it. Tell me what you think and use it wisely: "If you were to stand in front of a mirror holding 11 roses, you would see 12 of the most beautiful things in the world."

2006-08-13 19:22:26 · 24 answers · asked by slain 2 in Singles & Dating

I lost trust and i dont want her to be with her friends. Because they drink and i dont like her drinking. But when we argue we end up pushing each other. then i grab her by her hands real hard and then she starts to cry. I dont hit her, but im close to. How can i stop this? I love her and dont want to lose her. She said that if this keeps happining she is going to leave me. She also says that she loves me but hates me when i act crazy. I dont want to lose her what should i do? How can i stop this??? Help Me! We are both 19 years old.

2006-08-13 19:21:54 · 7 answers · asked by Ice age 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf and i have been seeing each other for 2 years and plan to get married next year. my problem is that he is tight with money, the last 2 valentines i got nothing,while i bought him something, the last 2 birthdays he got me nothing but i got him something! i thought love is about giving. i do surprieses for him like buy gifts for no occassion, but he doesnt. he only bought me a slack once. please help...

2006-08-13 19:21:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If yes, would you get a lap dance?
Would you buy your husband a lap dance?

2006-08-13 19:20:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sometimes I sit and wonder,
What life would be like.
Without this specail mother,
God picked for me in life.
She wiped my tears off,
When I cried,
Spanked my bottom,
When I lied.
She made the man,
I am today.
Not perfect, But trying
to change my ways.
I thank the lord,
For my family tree.
The best branch I have,
Is the mother he gave me...

How many of you feel like this about your mother.

2006-08-13 19:19:41 · 8 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3 in Singles & Dating

to her with IM? He is 14 yrs old and wrote I so love you on IM to her

2006-08-13 19:19:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You better get this right or I will sit on you...

2006-08-13 19:18:40 · 18 answers · asked by Debbie R 3 in Singles & Dating

Hello, my girlfriend and I have been dating for only about a month and a half. Things are going great. She is so sweet and I adore her. Her birthday is coming up in September. What is the most I should spend on her? I don't want to be cheap, but then again, I don't want to scare her off by getting her too much. Also, suggestions on what to get her. Thank you

Dane

2006-08-13 19:18:05 · 11 answers · asked by Dane 2 in Singles & Dating

If you had a one chance for TRUE LOVE, but had to make a serious decision to get that love would you do it, if it ment choising over your 3 year old daughter and your 2 year old son, or choising the love of your life and he made you make a decision. To be with him, but with out your kids, or to be with your kids but lose your chance at love?

Some people say I should be mad at my mom for leaving me and my little brother for a man. But the thing is I can't even remember her face let alone who she was. Do you think I should hate her or confront her?

2006-08-13 19:17:23 · 26 answers · asked by Crazy_Wanderer 3 in Family

~You are so valuable that God sent His only Son to die for you (John 3:16). Because God places such value on you, you need never fear personal threats or difficult trials. these can't shake God's love or dislodge his Spirit from within you. But this doesn't mean that God will take away all your troubles (Matthew 10:16). The real test of value is how well something holds up under the wear, tear, and abuse of everyday life. Those who stand up for Christ in spite of their troubles truly have lasting value and will receive great rewards (Matthew 5:11, 12).

~May your love not be based on feelings but on what Christ has done for you. As you grow in Christ's love, your heart and mind must grow together.

~We ought to pray for moral discernment so we can maintain our Christian morals and values.

2006-08-13 19:16:06 · 7 answers · asked by jvbaker06 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Can you fall into love once at the same extent as you did at the first time especially you got hurt from that one you have loved most? Can negative/unfortunate experience makes you easily give up/move on in the later relationship?

2006-08-13 19:15:51 · 7 answers · asked by wolf 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-13 19:15:48 · 8 answers · asked by CANDACE B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and how do i stop caring about people who don't care about me?

it somehow affects my studies because they keep popping up in my head. HELP!

2006-08-13 19:13:48 · 4 answers · asked by Spidergurl 4 in Friends

2006-08-13 19:11:27 · 21 answers · asked by precious 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I have been dating for 6 yrs now...lately, I wanted to discuss the idea of getting married...I had brought up previously and he said he wasn't ready, now he says he is still not ready but, he says he knows he wants to marry me, but why won't he talk about the details? By this I mean, why won't he talk to me about what he wants for our future, like if he wants kids or if his parents will come and live with us from time to time? Or how religion will influence our home ( ie. I don't eat beef and pork for religious reasons and he eats everything) or what languages can be spoken in the home (We are multilingual and the language I speak at home is different from the language he speaks at home and we cpeak english) Aren't these things important to discuss before marriage?

2006-08-13 19:11:22 · 11 answers · asked by Strawberry 3 in Singles & Dating

It is not so much the diagnosis as it is the fact that I have been cheating on myself with myself and my other self found out about it!
I am devastated! What should I do?

2006-08-13 19:08:50 · 5 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-13 19:08:25 · 35 answers · asked by bigbeatifullady 1 in Weddings

2006-08-13 19:08:20 · 16 answers · asked by robbybobby 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is that so important? What if you've never slept with anyone yet? What if you slept with a different person per day for 365 days out of the year? What differents does it make?

2006-08-13 19:06:40 · 22 answers · asked by teetalla 1 in Singles & Dating

Anyone know a cure to stop missing someone?? I miss my boyfriend so much and I can't sleep....any ideas for something I can do thats fun this early in the morning to forget about it??

2006-08-13 19:06:14 · 12 answers · asked by theblonchic 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-13 19:05:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been married 20 years and things are getting worse every day, all she's intrested in is what she can get, I gave her $1,000. to buy her some clothes and she wants more clothes, A new house and A new car. I've been working 16 to 22 hours a day and come home and have to wash towels so I can take A bath, she tries to give people advise about men and says "No damn man is going to tell her what to do". The other night she come beating on the bedroom window at 2:00 am and woke me up to let her in she forgot her keys when she left and I locked the door when I went to bed, the sad part is I don't really care what she was doing, I'm just tired of the same old crap and hope she meets someone so I can begin to live again.

2006-08-13 19:03:53 · 33 answers · asked by Texas A/C 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Actualy that i am not good.

2006-08-13 19:03:53 · 12 answers · asked by Phuong Dung N 1 in Family

My husband and I are fighting, I love him dearly. We just got into an agrument over my issues I have been dealing with over a year. Communication, and not listening properly. As a result, he feels under-appreciated, and feels he is not being rewarded for good behavior when he talks to me assertively.
I am seeking counseling again, in hopes to better myself as a person. My husband is getting feed up with me. I love him I want to work it out with him, he hears my apologies, and holds no value to it. Because apologies gets more "sorrier" . My husband is tempermental, he has recognized his issue and is taking action. In the course of 4 months I was impressed. Yet, I have not taking action to correct myself, and it is unfair. He has mentioned divorce. And...now, I am more fearful of losing him permanently because of my faults. In the course of three months I suffered two miscarrages, separation anxiety, and depression. I feel ashamed and blameful of myself if we got divorce

2006-08-13 19:03:49 · 19 answers · asked by Jenny A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you continue giving head to your lover if he did not give it in return. It is the best intercourse I have had in my life, which at times makes me forget that he does not reciprocate. I have asked and he tells me he will whrn he wants to, and not to ask. By the way he loves me giving him head.

2006-08-13 19:03:04 · 13 answers · asked by victory 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy at a party a couple weeks ago and I spent the night at his place, WITHOUT having sex. We just talked for a couple hours and held each other while we slept. We are both virgins and in college. He called me a couple days later and we hung out again, this time, at his apartment. We did the same thing again. We watched a movie, talked, and then held each other while we slept. I returned to my parent's for a couple weeks before fall semester starts, and he contacted me before I left telling me to have a fun trip and to call him when I get back. We are not really dating, nor have we known each other long enough to be friends. What is the status of this? Does he like me? What do you think will happen?

2006-08-13 19:03:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Two-day-old marriages falling apart. A few hundred couples queuing up at the courts every day - dying to go splitsville. Is this a sign of traditional Indian society fraying at the edges, or, does it indicate progress?

2006-08-13 19:02:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my defacto for 30 years, we broke up once for 12 months had a settlement, then we reconciled, for 3 years it did not work,now i want another settlement , he is saying we never lived together, the second time even though I gave him his first settlement back. Should I go for 50% of the estate, he also beat me up a lot.

2006-08-13 19:00:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce