why do other people's actions against me affect the way i feel?

Question

and how do i stop caring about people who don't care about me?

it somehow affects my studies because they keep popping up in my head. HELP!

Answer 1

Your sensitve, theres nothing wrong with that, it's a quality a lot of people take for granted, you can't stop caring about people because when you do you stop being who you are, what you can do is allow yourself to believe one thing, that what is said to you or about you is not what makes you, and then you can let it go.

Answer 2

you should care about people that don't care about you. Pray for people that don't care. You can only control how you behave and what you say. Just be a good person and help make the world better, k?
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Just be at peace with it and ask God to take care of this problem. Pray about it some. People are gonna dislike you and people are gonna like you. You can do your best to be a good person but you just have to live with it.

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Mavis knows~!

Answer 3

You can't. It's in your nature to care and you have this strong desire to want to have everyone like you and will go to great lengths to get them to. I have a sister like this. If she finds out that someone has said something negative about her, it drives her nuts and she does just about everything under the sun to get them to think differently. Just keep telling yourself that you are happy with who you are and eventually you'll believe it and won't focus all your time and energy worrying about what everyone else thinks of you. As for those who don't care about you, well honey, they are the ones missing out. You seem like a really sweet and sincere person....go with that. It will never steer you wrong.

Answer 4

you just care too much about what other people think. you stop caring by not talking to them for a while, just do other things to keep your mind away from them..like meet new people and hang out with them..well thats what i would do.