I will be married almost 3 years to the man I believe is my soulmate. This is my 2nd marriage, and his 1st. My question is about the "Madonna vs. Whore" idea with men, and is it maybe what my husband is going through? During our 2 years of dating, sex was great. Now, almost right after the honeymoon, he has told me that once a month is perfectly fine with him. We talked about our sexual experiences before marrying, and he told me he had a threesome. I had a sex life, but I thought he topped me! Now after the honeymoon, I found out most of his "history" was made up. It seems that his sexual past was more like "in the dark, and done in five minutes- missionary only". Sex is not the end all be all for marriage, but I would like it everyday. We try buying toys, but he gets shy about using them. He likes porn, but says he can't watch it with me. He has trouble getting it "up" sometimes, but gets it "up" in mere seconds if I wake him from a dead sleep. It seems to be in his head. Any ideas?
2006-08-13
18:16:00
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BuffyFromGP
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Marriage & Divorce