I love him so much, he means the world to me. And I am not saying I don't get angry sometimes. But he works overnights and when he has to get up early he is a pissy. Which is understandable but he takes it out on me. I get his anger to the world, for I know the way he was raised and his dad throws things when it is going wrong, and has no patience. But he is getting better with age. I am ready to get married but I wonder if all relationships take so much work. We have been together for four years now, and I am at the point where I think we should be married or seperate, but seperating doesn't even seem to be in the equation for me or him, it is such love. When I think of our relationship I am reminded of the NOTEBOOK movie, where he says, "it is gonna be hard and we will have to work at it" Is that always true? Any suggestions? Do all relationships take work, is it always hard? Any ideas on how to calm his temper and impatience?
2006-08-13
17:44:38
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thedreamer
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Marriage & Divorce