I care about her as a sister but not as a girlfriend? Why don't girls appreciate that? If someone cares about you in a sweet and loving way, then you should cherish that.
I have asked this question before but never got any straight answers.
2006-08-13 17:41:09 · 15 answers · asked by surfer_dude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
bc they get to feelin that u r the type they could be with bc u treat them well so they get attached
2006-08-13 17:43:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a hard one I am not most girls and had many male friends when I was a girl/teen I just got along with them better then girls. I guess your the same. You need to tell her that you like her the same as you like a sister tell her that there could never be any thing more then this as this is how you feel. I would rather be told by a guy that he likes me as a mate (not like a sister) most sisters and brothers do not hang out together but mates do if you want to hang out with her that is fine and just be her friend and do not go over that line and never let her go over the line be clear on where things stand. no more no less. All the best
2006-08-14 00:49:16 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs Magoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's the same vice versa... if a girl I like says to me that she cares about me as a brother not as a boyfriend... How can i appreciate that?? I want a relationship of which I can have a long lasting commitment to.. And I thought me and my good friend had that.. I guess not. It's just hurts when you have strong feelings for somebody, but the other person has different feelings than you.
2006-08-14 00:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by BokBok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually because the girl likes you in more than a "sister" way. Just tell her that you can't see her as the "girlfriend type" but that she is still a really close friend, like your sister. She probably likes you and that's why she'll be disappointed, but it's way better than going out with her just because she likes you.
2006-08-14 00:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by LiNdSaY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls don't appreciate that because thats how you love your girlfriend, in a sweet and loving way. just tell her nicely, she will get hurt i know but that's what life is about. getting hurt, getting over it, and moving on. it's a leason of life she needs to learn. either that or tell yourself , like think to yourself how come as a sister not a girlfriend.
2006-08-14 00:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by that one chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like this happens to you a lot. If this is the case then you are sending out some mixed signals. You should look inward and see if you are trying to get these girls interested in you so you can turn them down.
2006-08-14 00:45:26 · answer #6 · answered by Dude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her alone and tell her she is a great friend to you, almost like a sister, and you hope that never changes. If they think you're a great looking guy, all they want is a relationship
2006-08-14 00:47:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its going to break her heart !!! But tell her straight up ..don't try to sneak around telling her ......it will only make it worse !!! I'm sure that she would love to have someone close to her that she can trust !!!
2006-08-14 00:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus tell her.. the worst thing to do it lie to a girl.. tell her you love her but ur not in love with her. you will always be there is she ever needs you but u jus dnt feel right having her as you girlfriend, jus a friend...
2006-08-14 00:43:53 · answer #9 · answered by JussMe...YaKnow 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that shes like a sister to you or something that wont make her feel like ****.
2006-08-14 00:43:42 · answer #10 · answered by theblonchic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hear ya! im totally concious of that id so much rather be a guys best friend, little baby girl sorta thing, than his GF gfs fight and cause a hell of alot of drama. best friends just ****** rock!
2006-08-14 00:47:05 · answer #11 · answered by Ale[x]andra Aristocrat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋