My friend has a over controlling bf who also hits her. I havent talk to her in a while do to the fact she keep asking me what to do? I tell her she needs to leave him but still she want due to the fact they have a child. Us not talking is her idea. I need some advice about trying to help her understand why she needs to leave.
2006-08-13 18:19:19 · 8 answers · asked by ANGEL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
omg my friend is going through the same problem. except they have two kids. all you really can do is be there for your friend and pray, and hope for the best. its hard but the only way she'll leave is when she tells herself to.
2006-08-13 18:26:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More often than not, you can't make her understand, the best thing to do is to allow her to stand up for herself and decide when she's had enough, I know it's difficult to do as her friend but she will only push you away further and eventually cut you off all together. Be the best friend you can and listen to her, let her know that she deserves better than what she's gettin, most importantly let her know that when she needs you, you'll be there.
2006-08-13 19:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by Bayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she need more help like from family members and you that it is wrong for her to be beaten and the child would probably have a better life without a man beating its mother
2006-08-13 18:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by OkieOk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do, she need to figure it out herself, or she'll keep getting involved with the same type of people.
2006-08-13 18:30:09 · answer #4 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her family, because its not safe for the child to be in that environment over this hitting her, because the child sees his father hit the mother, he will think its okay for him to do it to his gf, or his wife.
2006-08-13 18:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her out of there NOW! My MOM had the same problem, she didn't want that kind of life for me, so she left him.She was very deppressed all the time w/ him and very suicital, so please if you love your friend(you sound like you do) help her out of this mess.
2006-08-13 18:25:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs more help than you can give her. I am afraid there is not much you can do, as your girlfriend has low self-esteem and needs professional help.
2006-08-13 18:22:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her how long she thinks it will be before he hits the kid
2006-08-13 18:25:46 · answer #8 · answered by Back Porch Willy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋