Family & Relationships - 6 August 2006

I corresponded with this man for 6 monthes over e-mail. In that time, a beautiful relationship blossomed. We talked on the phone and then met, and really hit it off. I mean REALLY. He told I was like no one he has ever met before. And then he started asking me questions like " If I asked you to marry me right now would you?" and " If I got you pregnant, would you keep the baby", and we have not even had sex yet. This was like on our third date. I asked why he asked, and he said he just wanted to know how commited I was to him. Then right after that he told me, if I wanted a girlfriend right now, it would be you, but I am not ready. Now he has thrown himself into his work, and I have not heard from him for a while. He has been in several heartbreaking relationships including the last one in which his heart and his dignity were severely damaged. I have told him I will wait for him because he is a good friend to me and I want a future with him, but could someone please just explain this?

2006-08-06 20:08:46 · 9 answers · asked by Rose 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-06 20:08:24 · 7 answers · asked by god 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-06 20:07:43 · 6 answers · asked by ceecee 1 in Singles & Dating

would you just go up to their face and tell them with no fear?

2006-08-06 20:07:28 · 12 answers · asked by love earth 2 in Singles & Dating

I think I've found my one. My blue prince, the one I will marry one day and live with for the rest of my days... He's sweet, smart, caring, kind, fun, handsome, he has everything... He does everything to make me happy. We do have our differences but we deal with them. Actually, our few differences is very interesting to us because we learn from each other. He treats me so well! I treat him very well too and we're in love.

But, sometimes I feel afraid, I trust him so much, but sometimes I get this feeling to not give myself away to him completely. Something might happen... something tells me I shouldn't trust him blindly... He's never done anything for me to think like this of him so I don't understand.

I think it might be because subcounciosly I'm still afraid to go through another hearbreak...

What do you guys think?

2006-08-06 20:05:26 · 9 answers · asked by Athena 4 in Singles & Dating

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2006-08-06 20:04:38 · 4 answers · asked by bluemovesme 1 in Family

My Dad and I have this really close relationship and its weird because your suppose to have this kind of relationship with your mom and my mom and I just don't click like my Dad and I do. Its also really weird because if there was a guy I like, moms are suppose to ask you stuff and if I try to ask my dad he wants there address so he can go kill the person (lol) and well that puts my in a really tough spot. Oh, and believe me I have tryed to talk to me mom and frankly shes just not as cool as my dad!!!!:))

2006-08-06 20:04:16 · 4 answers · asked by Freckel Face 2 in Family

Here's the details. We've been dating about two months and things were going great. However, my feelings for her have changed as of late and I'm confused. There's a part of me that wants to be with her and a part of me that is confused about my feelings for her. I'm so confused and don't know want to do. I don't want to make the biggest mistake of my life and split up with her if indeed I'm meant to be with her. She's a great girl for the most part. However, she can be moddy and selfish at times. I just feel unattracted to her personality at times. I don't know if taking time apart will help or not. This has been all I can think about and I'm just scared because I don't want to see her hurt. I'm just too nice of a person to want to see anyone hurt. You can probably see how this situation has me in limbo. Please try to give me real good advice. This is something I'm counting on someone out there to really help me with so please be serious. Thanks so much fo helping me!

2006-08-06 20:03:58 · 19 answers · asked by bcolton7 1 in Singles & Dating

what would you do if you are in my situation????
My husband was divorced for 3 years before I met him his ex-wife left him for another man and she left their two kids with him, now they are grown up and the other one is living with him she’s 18 years old, We are married and living together with his daughter for a year now, his daughter was only close to her father and resent her mother, before I move in with them she wrote me a letter that “she will do anything for me, she can’t wait to see me” since her father and I met 8000 miles away and his daughter and I only met her after we got married and move from my country to their country. At first she was ok with me and to everything, I have done everything to her take care of her when she was sick and be there for her and after about two months, she started to change when she started getting close to her mother, she just didn’t change to me but to her father as well, there is no quite days in our house in every little thing she started to moan things to her father shouting, telling him he is stingy and, doesn’t do anything about her when in fairness to my husband he does take care of her daughter , buy things to his daughter, he bought her a car but his daughter never appreciate everything my husband do for her, and then she started being funny with me, we went to the party and we were there sitting in front at each other and she started throwing peanuts on my face, pop a party popper on my face and I was just patient because I don’t want an argument and in the middle of the party when I just got back from the toilet and when I was about to sit down she pulled the chair from underneath that make me fall to the floor she started laughing and I told her it wasn’t funny at all and she started telling me “ok bring it on, bring it on, stuff it with you”, I was really upset I just told my husband to take us home and when we get home my husband told her off that the things she did was out of control and she started crying and telling her dad that it was just a joke, she does things to me that I can’t carry on like messing all her things every time I clean, she doesn’t wash the dishes and let me wash it, she use a bunch of towels everyday when I was the one who is washing, she lost my dog before I got back from America when she was supposed to be looking after it and never even say sorry and explain how did the dog got lost, I have tried to be patient and think she might realize that I am not her enemy, I tried to talk to her but instead she doesn’t listen when I talk. Now, we sold our house and looking for a place to live but deep inside my heart I don’t want her to move with us anymore and I told my husband about how I feel, and it seems my husband will do nothing about it.

2006-08-06 20:03:50 · 20 answers · asked by confused_fozz 2 in Family

my father has onley given me 2 or 3 presents for both b-days and x-mas called me a few times for those occasions bairlly talks to me hes never around any suggetions?

2006-08-06 20:02:08 · 31 answers · asked by cookie49504 2 in Family

I need to know why some people have such a hard time saying what's on their mind... My bf and I have fallin into some habits as far as where we go and how we do things. I'm not necessarily a freak for habit so I would prefer to change things, expecially if it means spending less time with him because I don't want to get burned out on him. But he has an aversion to telling me his thoughts and preferences.
Am I intimidating him by not being clingy enough. It could ruin things because I'm tired of guessing and being wrong.

2006-08-06 20:02:02 · 5 answers · asked by crazygreeniis 3 in Singles & Dating

ok.....I am meeting a guy for a blind date. What should I wear? Im a shorts and tshirt girl....dont know if we will be going out or not. He told me to bring something "decent" just in case we did. HELP!!!!!!

2006-08-06 20:01:58 · 5 answers · asked by sillynurse 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean, I know I'm not ugly, in fact I'm friends with all of the "beautiful girls" but I just guess no one ever notices me past my friends...

anyway...I have only had one boyfriend and it was a short lived relationship and we never said "i love you" so i wouldnt consider it very serious....

anyway, If I haven't had a boyfriend by now, does that mean I'm gonna be alone forever?? I just don't see this ever happening and I get so sad. I mean, don't get me wrong people have liked me before, but never the type of people I would ever consider dating...and a lot of the times the people I like only want to use me to hook up with. I feel like I won't ever find what I'm looking for...

2006-08-06 20:01:50 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-06 20:01:31 · 14 answers · asked by bOSsy b1tC8 2 in Singles & Dating

by the way, two kids want to stay with daddy.

2006-08-06 20:01:26 · 14 answers · asked by ToWhomItMayConcern 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and my boyfriend, who is 27 never wants to go out. He has a really hard time loosening up and having fun. What are some things that I could do to get him to have a good time?

2006-08-06 20:01:15 · 4 answers · asked by LorrinO 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-06 20:01:13 · 7 answers · asked by IZam 1 in Friends

anwser the question best you can

2006-08-06 20:00:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We have never met but we've seen each other's picture. Besides that we did chat on the phone too.

2006-08-06 20:00:03 · 21 answers · asked by mystique_rider 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom doesnt know i chat online should i tell her or not i dont know how she will react and my mom feels i'm never to old for a whippin and my mom uses her hand and she is heavy handed so should i tell my mom that i chat online or just keep it a secret

2006-08-06 19:59:19 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

when i'm with my friend (whom i might be getting together with) we'd make sounds when we have blank times... if we are just sitting there and can't think of anything to say we will go "doo dee doo" to cover the ocward silence.

when we cuddle and don't have anything to say but we feel like saying something we will go "meow" sometimes she'll go "chii" or "kupo" or "o'fwee"

also when one goes "meow" the other will go "meow" in return kinda like when you tell someone "i love you" but the "meow" dosen't express that strong of feelings.

i'm not exactly sure the feeling we express through our sounds but it makes me feel happy when she meows back.

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Does anyone else do this or are we just a really odd pair?

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2006-08-06 19:58:01 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i just found out my girlfriend got drunk while she was over at her friend's house and i found out she made out with her. but should i consider this as cheating?

2006-08-06 19:57:53 · 13 answers · asked by maxi 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-06 19:55:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this girl who's really nice and sits next to me a lot and trys to start a conversaion. I really like her but i ger so nervous i end up saying somethin completely stupid!!! pls help me!!

2006-08-06 19:55:27 · 10 answers · asked by donutdude200 1 in Singles & Dating

everday my mom comes home from work she always has somethin to say that i did wrong so she is always yellin every time she gets home and i cant take it anymore its so annoyin its lil stuff that she yells at me about but she makes big deals out of it she always says y dont u go live wit ur dad but i cant stand my dad either should i move in wit my grandparents and just see my mom on the weekends or wat?

2006-08-06 19:54:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

found person online and go's to see them once a month spouse claims they are only a sex buddy and they know that my spouse is married spouse claims they have no feeling for that person but yet they do more then just sex when they are to gether they do things cupples would do spouse says they would never leave me they love to much.

2006-08-06 19:54:54 · 13 answers · asked by over22yearsgone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 28 years old. I met this girl, 23 year old, three months ago and have grown in love with her in time. I have invited her a couple of times to have some coffee or eat lunch on three ocassions, only the first time she accepted. After two times of having my invitation cancelled (she had accepted both times) I decided not to pursue and called her to wish her the best in life and good-bye, a week later she left me a message at work to call her back and so I did. She revealed to me she's been a widow for six months and was afraid of entering a relationship but she wanted to continue seeing me. I have not revealed my feelings for her but I think I need to before this goes forward and grow deeper that will hurt even more. Should I?

Thanks in advance

2006-08-06 19:54:00 · 15 answers · asked by scherzo_for_motorcycle_orchestra 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-06 19:53:49 · 11 answers · asked by CTM 3 in Singles & Dating

She invited me over to check out her new apt. We went out to dinner, came back and watched a movie. I was nervous to make moves, but I did put my around behind her, kind of on the couch. And at the end of the night she kissed me on the cheek....She doesnt say much else though, which kind of makes it hard to determine. What do you think??

2006-08-06 19:53:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl is always calling my man. She's from canada hes says theres nothing going on,so i had him call her and i spoke to her with him,she said they were just friends,but i think there lying. any suggestions

2006-08-06 19:53:31 · 4 answers · asked by ceeseecee 2 in Singles & Dating