everday my mom comes home from work she always has somethin to say that i did wrong so she is always yellin every time she gets home and i cant take it anymore its so annoyin its lil stuff that she yells at me about but she makes big deals out of it she always says y dont u go live wit ur dad but i cant stand my dad either should i move in wit my grandparents and just see my mom on the weekends or wat?
2006-08-06 19:54:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i'm 14 and i have lived wit my grandparents b4 and i'm not leavin my mom to go live wit friend i'm livin wit my grandparents their house is like 5 min away from where i live and i will still see my mom
2006-08-06 20:22:24 · update #1
It depends. It doesnt seem like your mom is giving you the emotional support that you need. I know it's rough to hear someone you love constantly tell you that what you are doing is either not good enough or wrong. I would recommend moving out if you have the means to live on your own. Do you have a job that would allow you to support yourself? Do you have any extended family or close friends that you could stay with for awhile? Home is supposed to be a haven for you and not a stressful environment. I would take the steps to move out when you can. That may in turn improve your relationship with your mom later on.. I wish you the best. ~pinecomb
2006-08-06 20:02:45 · answer #1 · answered by pinecomb 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i suppose u have some personal problems going on in yoUr house... its better you stay with ur grandparents... give some time to your mom to miss you for a while... well i don't know the reason 4 what your mom keeps yelling at u .... if you think she scolds u 4 no reason or may be for small small mistakes that every body does , then its the right tI'me to let your mom understand what she had done is wrong.. and im sure you will be happy together soon... i know how you feel cause i have experienced the same last year and even got fedup of living &thought to my self why should i live . well thats a long story... but things came back normal now... so all i tell u is that give some time to your momma to miss you 4a while.keep smiling.. byeeeeee!
2006-08-06 20:12:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't move out so fast! If you are under 18, you need your mom to give her permit. But what it sounds like is this; there has been a drop in communication between you and your mom. And you need to think of what will happen later between you and your mom if you do move out. Think before you act on something that you may end up regretting later.It is never too late to talk to her about how you really feel, what's hurting you. Because you sound like you are hurting .
2006-08-06 20:19:37 · answer #3 · answered by skyexs2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i moved out when i was 16. and i haven't lived at home since, (im 20 now) since then my mom and i have a amazing relationship, shes my best friend...we went from fighting and hitting each other, to this.
then again, i moved out and got a job, paid for rent...wasnt living with family. so be careful on your decisions. moving away from your parents can be the best thing of your life, if you're fighting all the time, or your moms nagging you all the time. you're still really young, but good luck!
2006-08-06 20:55:53 · answer #4 · answered by vacantskiesss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should get yourself together .Find a job and move out.Sometimes being away from each other helps the relationship.I think your mom has alot of stress and problems inside .She does not now how to fixed them she thinks maybe by screaming and taking it on you might help only if she new she is pushing her daughter more furder away .Kids should always come first in a mothers role but she will notice one day how much pain she has put you through.becareful and stay strong girl.
2006-08-06 20:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by shasilk67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, it's not all about you. I know that you get really frustrated at home with your mom, but try for a bit and put your-self in your moms shoes. Ask her what she did all day and imagine your self in her shoes. Your mom loves you and would give her life for you even if you don't think so. BELIEVE ME! I've been there.
2006-08-06 20:05:28 · answer #6 · answered by RT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to work things out instead of run away but if she is just too difficult to deal with and doesn't want to work things out I would definetly speak to your grandparents. They will be there to help you and talk to her.
2006-08-06 19:58:49 · answer #7 · answered by sissyfyia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if yourgrandparents agree and your folks dont mindthen go ahead.But first talk to your mum and tell her that her yelling at you is driving you crazy maybe she does it out of works frustration or even subconsiously try talking to her to resolve the issues .ots the best choice in the long run
2006-08-06 20:02:12 · answer #8 · answered by sassybiva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must do or don't do something to annoy her ...and i bet i know the reason why your mom yells at you...you don't clean after you make a mess or you don't clean around the house period
2006-08-06 20:21:04 · answer #9 · answered by JJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really hard to talk to ur parents, but i think it'll be good to just ask her why is she bitching at you all the time. and tell her that if she keeps doin it u will move out, But if u do get a long with ur grandparents, wut are u waitin 4????
2006-08-06 20:01:16 · answer #10 · answered by custom_made_mami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋