I think I've found my one. My blue prince, the one I will marry one day and live with for the rest of my days... He's sweet, smart, caring, kind, fun, handsome, he has everything... He does everything to make me happy. We do have our differences but we deal with them. Actually, our few differences is very interesting to us because we learn from each other. He treats me so well! I treat him very well too and we're in love.
But, sometimes I feel afraid, I trust him so much, but sometimes I get this feeling to not give myself away to him completely. Something might happen... something tells me I shouldn't trust him blindly... He's never done anything for me to think like this of him so I don't understand.
I think it might be because subcounciosly I'm still afraid to go through another hearbreak...
What do you guys think?
2006-08-06 20:05:26 · 9 answers · asked by Athena 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all it sounds like you have a very wonderful relationship, definitely something to build upon. You did not say how old you are. I believe you are young. If you feel uncomfortable about anything in your life, simply don't do it. It may be a trust issue. It may be just fear. I am sure you don't want to be hurt. Giving yourself to someone completely as you so gracefully put it, is a huge decision. It should not be made lightly. You will never regret waiting, but you may regret doing this too soon. You have plenty of time. let your relationship and your love grow. You will know when it is right. You will feel peaceful and happy about your decision. I wish you the very best. Good luck. Always go with your gut feelings, your conscience will never lead you wrong.
2006-08-06 20:15:02 · answer #1 · answered by sleepless in the ATL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me just say congrats on finding someone you love! However you become more cautious because I'm guessing you have been through a heartbreak before. Love is very unpredictable and it has a way of concealing your significant other's problem. It is wonderful that you want to share your life with him. But its YOUR life and you should retain something for yourself, others should not run your life and trusting someone blindly is not the best idea. Because no one is perfect. You are not doing anything wrong by holding back. But don't hold back enough not to enjoy this wonderful time of your life. Time would tell where everything stands.
2006-08-07 03:17:19 · answer #2 · answered by inLaLaLand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With great sacrifice comes great trust. When someone sacrifices a lot for you, then you can trust them more. You have to weigh that in accordance with what is a lot for them. If they only make $40,000 a year then expecting them to buy you a private jet is certainly out of the question.
2006-08-07 03:11:20 · answer #3 · answered by Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOney, you definately answered your own question. But, congragulations, I wish I could share the same feelings you do with your guy. It sounds perfect, but remember he's human and things aren't always going to be that way....
2006-08-07 03:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by gravytrain036 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety if he's the one 4 u then y r u insecure 'let the time play its role. u enjoy ur hap[py moments y r u stressing urself 4 no reason.but yes keep ur eyes open and visualize all the facts about his relationship
2006-08-07 03:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd talk to him about this, but only you can tell if he is the right one for you.
2006-08-07 03:09:33 · answer #6 · answered by dudefungame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST U LISTEN TO YOUR COUNSISE\HEART AND THEN ARGUE IT BY MIND.OR LET THINGS GO AS IT IS FOR SOME TIME YOU WILL HAVE REALITY AGAINST YOU.
2006-08-07 03:13:51 · answer #7 · answered by ROHAN M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel u suld go nude to him ask him to play with u and make u pregnant .
2006-08-07 03:10:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello my name is verrick
2006-08-07 03:11:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋