I mean, I know I'm not ugly, in fact I'm friends with all of the "beautiful girls" but I just guess no one ever notices me past my friends...
anyway...I have only had one boyfriend and it was a short lived relationship and we never said "i love you" so i wouldnt consider it very serious....
anyway, If I haven't had a boyfriend by now, does that mean I'm gonna be alone forever?? I just don't see this ever happening and I get so sad. I mean, don't get me wrong people have liked me before, but never the type of people I would ever consider dating...and a lot of the times the people I like only want to use me to hook up with. I feel like I won't ever find what I'm looking for...
2006-08-06 20:01:50 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you won't die alone. you have a lot of time to become the person you want to be. then worry about a partner. i didn't meet the love of my life until i was 28. he is well worth the wait.
2006-08-06 20:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by luvbuggies 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear I hope not!!!! Cuz i'm 17 and I dont' see myself w/any of the guys at my school. And even when I go to college I always get too wrapped up in studying to make time for guys. Except the ones that are my friends. I hope its not a sign that you'll be alone forever, because that is THE most depressing thought I can think right now. I'm sure the "right" guy is out there somewhere. Just have fun with dating for the mean time. Good luck!! Hang in there!!!
2006-08-06 20:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are as picky as I am. I waited 8 years after my first wife left to be a bar fly, before I found the right girl. I dated a lot of women, never really settling until I met and married the one I wanted. Now we are happy, and nothing could change the way I feel about her. Your day will come, when you meet the right guy, and he actually notices you. Don't push things, and do not rush into anything, and good things will happen.
2006-08-06 20:11:42 · answer #3 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't worry about it. I'm a 21 year old man and I've only had one girlfriend. I am also a virgin, which is more common than people seem to think. Now, when you get to be about 35 years old then I'd start being concerned . . . but at 20 you have plenty of time. Be patient and keep an eye open! Good luck!
2006-08-06 20:07:22 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! I am even older than you and am in the same situation. It is just a funny disposition, sometimes nice looking girls don`t have enough luck and that`s all. I am sure you will find someone and that you will care about each other a lot! Just because it didn`t happen till now it doesn`t mean it won`t!
2006-08-06 23:37:03 · answer #5 · answered by Villa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it means you're not as aggressive as other girls which in many ways can be a good thing. It means you're honest, and not a player. You're probably more genuine in some ways and less of a gold digger. I think you'll probably meet a more genuine guy, even if he's not as nice looking or maybe doesn't make as much money.
You have to realize that money is not everything, and quality of life is more than your possessions. If you have a manipulitive, controlling husband, then it doesn't matter if you're rich or not.
2006-08-06 20:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 20 and just starting your life. You have time to find things that you enjoy doing, go to school/college. When the right person comes along you will know it, just keep busy having fun.
Stop putting pressure on your self and you will be surprised how this won't seem like such a big thing later on.
Enjoy life to the fullest.
2006-08-06 20:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never had any serious boyfriends, until I met my husband, when I was 21. I was about to lose all hope too. Just go out and have as much fun as you can --- guys are attracted to girls who are fun loving. When you are not looking is when love will find you. Good Luck!
2006-08-06 20:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by hagren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, girl. Instead of fretting about what's gonna happen, whether you'll find him or not, why not make the most out of your youth? There are a lot of things to do, a lot of experiences to have if you can just stop trying to figure out if you're doomed to be a spinster.
2006-08-06 20:22:11 · answer #9 · answered by blabberblink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient dear. Keep smiling :-). God created a woman and gave her ability to smile. just keep smiling. You will definately have a bf but don't keep looking for it. he will come to u( it's really that simple). I am a guy, 26year old and never had a gf. I tried a lot to have one, but believe i have still not found the right one. SO DON'T WORRY(u will lose your beauty if u worry too much) , u r still very young.
If you still don't find any1, and won't mind dating a asian. I am available( YAHOOOOO). I know you don't want to do that( thats last option). Just in case my id: namalbarman@yahoo.com
SMILE PLEASE :-)
2006-08-06 20:16:26 · answer #10 · answered by gentleman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋