Family & Relationships - 8 August 2006

I had a really great boyfriend. We were going to get engaged and try make a baby. But things were moving too fast. He moved in after a week and after 3wks he wanted to try make a baby and get engaged. I was keen, but then I freaked out, as I didn't feel ready to have another child. So I dumped him. After about a week had passed, I realise it was a bad decision. But he was really hurt and not ready to think about taking me back. After a few weeks, I slept with a guy, which felt wrong and I wish it never happened. It made me realise even more, that I didn't want to be with anyone but my ex. I proposed to my ex about a few weeks later. And he was thinking about saying yes, but them asked if I'd been with anyone new, to which I said no twice and then said yes, as I knew he'd be hurt. But I couldn't live with a lie. Then he has been thinking about giving it another shot. Do I deserve a second chance? I love him, I want only him : (

2006-08-08 23:56:27 · 13 answers · asked by feraud79 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Almost 1 yr ago, I called the man I consider my one true love to find out what had happened to him. I did a little searching and was not able to find a "wife" anywhere so I called. The moment we connected almost 9 yrs later, he and I realized that we were still completely in love but now what?
We were both in marriages that were not happy, married for all the wrong reasons. He had a child and so did I. We decided to keep talking (looking back on this, god, I know that was a bad move but had no choice... this guy is it for me). We engaged in an intense emotional affair and have talked for hours about the time when we can be together and live our life together.
His wife knows about me... She found a txt message months ago and he promised not to talk to me again. But then he told me that he would never let me go and so we continued. This is without a doubt the man I am meant to be with.
I think she discovered us again, what should I do?

2006-08-08 23:55:14 · 15 answers · asked by LovingMichael 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My b/f wants me to have a 3some with him amd my best mate HyPo...i know she wants to too but i am scared that if i do it will ruin our relationships...whay should i do???

2006-08-08 23:55:01 · 57 answers · asked by SCITZ-BIATCH 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been in a deep relation with my bf over 2 years now.We loved each othr a lot.I stayed with him for the first year and half but later i had to move to another country.He was desperate to have me with him and I too was trying my best to get my job shifted to his country. My parents were not very happy about this relationship of ours but i had made up my mind to go against them to pursue my relation with this guy. we decided to get married soon but after some 6 months of staying apart, he got frustrated and thought i was playing games with him which i was not. i tried convincing him a lot but no use. one bad day, he tells me he wants to move on and cant continue the long distance relationship. he even started to have feelings for another girl. i am totally heartbroken becoz i was trying hard to get with him and he went away with some one else. i just cant get over this. i have lost faith in true love.Please help! i miss this guy a lot. i truly love him

2006-08-08 23:54:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-08 23:53:45 · 14 answers · asked by steven 4 in Singles & Dating

hey i been with my boyfriend for almost a year we are getting married and i am 11 weekss preg with his baby, and i can't trust him.. we broke up for about 2 hours and he slept with a little s*ut...who pretended to be my friend, and i asked my boyfriend if he ever slept with her and he said no, and the next day he told me he has be lying to me and he did, he had the balls to tell me at least... and i DON'T wanna leave him and I know I'm dumb for not.. but I love him so much and he's really all I have, everyone tells me how pretty i am i can get whoever i want and i don't want anyone else.. some of my boyfriends friends tell me i should not trust him on how he acts around other females, and my friends tell me about stuff they hear about, i don't know if they are starting rumors or what, i have enough trust issues with him already, and how can i tell him that? i ask him about what i hear and he gets mad. and should i still believe whatever he says?

2006-08-08 23:53:34 · 7 answers · asked by kmkgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The girl you married was not the one for you...years later you find the ONE for you...is it too late

2006-08-08 23:51:08 · 9 answers · asked by Sanjay B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Every thought , every breath
every memory haunted
by the reality that you will be gone
nothing I can do, nothing I can say
can keep you from leaving
your going in certainty
like the leaves falling in october
every bare branch means
the end of summer is here
every day that goes by
it's a little harder to smile
a little harder to breathe
I'll miss the wrinkes
your eyes make when you smile
I'll miss the prickle
of your chin gone unshaven
I'll miss the way you get upset
when I say "fine" but dont mean it
I'll miss the times we laugh for hours
about things no one else finds funny
I'll miss the times we lay in bed
for hours and hour on end
just chatting and laughing,
and even sometimes bickering...
I think sometimes we like to fight
Just so that we can make up...
and hold eachother the whole night through...
I whisper I forgive you..
and then you whisper back to me
I forgive you too..
there are so many things I'll miss
in fact.. I already do.....

2006-08-08 23:48:46 · 8 answers · asked by minx 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-08 23:48:41 · 14 answers · asked by lucas w 1 in Singles & Dating

¡Minê is, schööl crushës, mÜsic, gõõd fööd, big Ållowance, Çool parents!

2006-08-08 23:47:21 · 29 answers · asked by Sweetie 3 in Singles & Dating

I was thinking that western girls are the most beautiful girls in the world have good skin, hairs and face etc. but most of these girls are ruining their lives by spending lives without marriage with boy friends.
I think the most precious thing for a woman is a sincere husband who loves only with his wife and does not even look to another woman face and spend his whole life with his wife and both loves each other take care of each other.
This should be the ideal life would you agree ?

2006-08-08 23:46:25 · 3 answers · asked by smart s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-08 23:46:01 · 9 answers · asked by Casper 2 in Singles & Dating

hey i been with my boyfriend for almost a year we are getting married and i am 11 months preg with his baby, and i can't trust him.. we broke up for about 2 hours and he slept with a little s*ut...who pretended to be my friend, and i asked my boyfriend if he ever slept with her and he said no, and the next day he told me he has be lying to me and he did, he had the balls to tell me at least... and i DON'T wanna leave him and I know I'm dumb for not.. but I love him so much and he's really all I have, everyone tells me how pretty i am i can get whoever i want and i don't want anyone else.. some of my boyfriends friends tell me i should not trust him on how he acts around other females, and my friends tell me about stuff they hear about, i don't know if they are starting rumors or what, i have enough trust issues with him already, and how can i tell him that? i ask him about what i hear and he gets mad. and should i still believe whatever he says?

2006-08-08 23:44:58 · 19 answers · asked by kmkgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

y are boys so hard to work out y do they alwys give mixed messages??

2006-08-08 23:42:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we live in a little village in practically the middle of nowhere and my god awful brother keeps taking all the work...my parents wont give us any money we have to go out and work for it fair enough but i cant get any cuz my bro has taken all the work...i wanna go out with my friends but just cant afford it i've spoken to my parents and my brother and there is nothing they can do and they dont want to he only does stuff like mowin lawns and washing cars but he gets loadsa money he saved upp enough money to buy a 30 gig ipod in 1 month he's even taken the only paper round for miles its the summer holidays and i cant face being stuck home all the time its making me depressed...i got so bored i volanterily cleaned the entire house for nothing this isnt natural as i'm normally a messy little c.o.w i ask if they have any work and its " no dear your brother is doing it" wtf am i gonna do i cant take this anymore i need to be active and doing something i need something to look forward to!!help

2006-08-08 23:42:35 · 30 answers · asked by pritzy-fairy 3 in Family

what are your Do's and Dont's?

2006-08-08 23:40:56 · 14 answers · asked by Jan 6 in Singles & Dating

Seeing girls swoon when that guy takes his shirt off, listening to all the people who have them on TV tell you how easy it is, then trying yourself and failing. Maybe I am just depressed right now because my results are stagnating and no matter how much better I get I am not satisfied. All I know is, I wish people didn't care so much. I didn't hang out with my friends hardly at all this summer because I was at the gym the whole time.

2006-08-08 23:39:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i always make my own boyfriend hurt,i mean his heart,n he always be patient with me,until one day,he get tired in loving me n tired of being patient with me...i felt regret,n now i know i've lost a very big thing in my life...how can i get him back?

2006-08-08 23:38:05 · 28 answers · asked by Arya S 1 in Singles & Dating

any girl intersted inchatting with me on hot issues

2006-08-08 23:37:52 · 10 answers · asked by Coolguy 1 in Friends

My Daugther has been living with me since i went to court for child support. at the very moment i am unemloyed due to me having no one to watch over my daugther. My parents work during the day so it is hard for me to go on interviews.. I'm not one of those dead beat dads who dont wanna pay child support.. I just dont have a way of paying.. I have my daugther atleast 28 days out of a month my ex-girlfriend only picks her up every other weekend ( so picks her up friday night and brings her back sunday night).. How can i get child support switch around back on her she doesn't give me money to help support my daugther my parents are the ones helping taking care of us.. please help

2006-08-08 23:37:05 · 6 answers · asked by waloric 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-08 23:36:14 · 9 answers · asked by mary A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-08 23:35:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-08 23:34:13 · 4 answers · asked by mzjaydawg 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been dating my girlfriend for nearly 3 months now and I've fallen hard for her. It might seem like a really short time but we have both openly admitted to each other before that we had crushes on each other while we were dating other people for upwards of a year. She has also told me before that I was her "dream" guy, but this was around the time we started dating. I'm leaving for college soon, and although I will only be an hour away from home and will be home most weekends, I know this scares her, because she will still be in High School. I'm simply wondering if you think that me telling her how I really feel about her will make our relationship stronger or if it will scare her more. She has never been in a relationship longer than about 6 months, and I admit that I am scared that she might not respond the same to me. What do I do???

2006-08-08 23:33:32 · 14 answers · asked by ironfist2106 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-08 23:32:48 · 24 answers · asked by Casper 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-08 23:32:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-08 23:28:19 · 11 answers · asked by Sheeth 5 in Friends

i mean, i don't want to scare people away. they think i'm serious and all. i know i'm shy but i'm not really serious. but my close friends tell me that i'm not the person they thought i was (it turned out i wasn't serious or shy). i'm trying to become "noisy" and talk to people and smile at people but some still think i'm too quiet or serious. help!

2006-08-08 23:28:09 · 16 answers · asked by smashmouth 2 in Singles & Dating

I just want to know.. will there be enough penetration in doggie style?

2006-08-08 23:25:51 · 13 answers · asked by Trying to be spiritual 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She has never trimed or shaved her pubes before, we been married 9 yrs.....she loves oral but the hair makes it hard to preform. I have asked her to shave before , she called me a pervert. Any ideas??

2006-08-08 23:25:04 · 39 answers · asked by soollddiieerr 1 in Marriage & Divorce