My b/f wants me to have a 3some with him amd my best mate HyPo...i know she wants to too but i am scared that if i do it will ruin our relationships...whay should i do???
2006-08-08 23:55:01 · 57 answers · asked by SCITZ-BIATCH 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kick him in the nuts and get roxy the lesso to join yas lol
2006-08-09 00:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by lil_psycho_smurfette06 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
unless this is what you really want.....
Just say NO! you're already unsure and feeling anxiety at the thought of what a 3some will do to your relationship. What you should be thinking about, is what it will do to you emotionally. Something like this, you can never take back and the regret will be yours to keep. Your b/f is a very selfish person, to even ask you to indulge in that kind of thing. If he cares for you and loves you, then you should be all he needs. Don't settle for someone that wants others PLUS you. Value yourself more and if he doesn't understand your feelings or respect them, then he's not worth staying with. You do this and his sexual curiosity will only lead to more intense encounters. Don't do that to yourself or let anyone pressure you - a true friend would never do that. There are plenty of guys out there, that would be happy with just "you".
2006-08-09 00:07:15 · answer #2 · answered by mangosmoothie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to not do it but if you do beware of the consequences. Did you read one of the other girls question on here, it was just recent. ( she had a threesome ) her, her boyfriend and another girl. I don't think the girl was here friend but anyway now she is going behind her boyfriends back and still sleeping with the girl and she is starting to fall for her. So that is something to think about. It can definately turn out to be a disaster or ruin relationships.
2006-08-09 03:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by Thandie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a special kind of relationship, mainly built on TRUST beyond belief, to make it through a 3some. My advice, don't do it. You have doubts already, and there's reasons why. If you have to ask complete strangers what to do, you shouldn't do it.
And the next time he mentions a 3some... Say "sure, but I pick the other guy"...and see what kind of reaction you get lol.
2006-08-09 00:12:39 · answer #4 · answered by Mom24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it if you have doubts about if, feel uncomfortable about it or in any way threatened by the idea of it.
It can be a fun experience but it can also go terribly wrong especially if you haven't anticipated the consequences properly. Remember that you will see your best friend with your boyf and it will be an image that will stick in your head for quite a while, can you live with it?
2006-08-09 00:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by Littlegreydevil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice is this.... if you're not going to be comfortable ... it won't work out right. Which means you need to find a way to be comfortable. God I hated to say that too cuz I feel like I'm **** blocking. I say have some fun with it girl... how often do ya get to have a threesome anyways.... lay down some ground rules though... whatever concerns you ... you need to let him know upfront and make him explain to you what his ground rules are... and then he owes you one too... so if you wanna have sex with one of his friends what's good for the goose is good for the gander. If he isn't willing to agree to your rules, then it's a no go.
2006-08-09 00:04:35 · answer #6 · answered by heykidddj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think threesomes should be experienced between un attached one night stands - not preferably your friend or boyfriend- it could be a sure way to lose both of them - if you respect them and they do you then they would not want to risk losing what it is you share with either of them just for a night of hot sex! Think this one over - why are they both keen to do this?? Do you want to see them together? You might be assisting in cutting your own throat - be careful.
2006-08-09 00:00:46 · answer #7 · answered by flutterbitty69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
threesomes work best with people that you do not know
no relationship to spoil
no friends that will talk about it
one way it to go to these parties that everybody has a mask
like in the movie "eyes wide shut", it is a very fun experience.
many adult book stores that a listings of the parties!!!
2006-08-09 00:02:10 · answer #8 · answered by timestamps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not allow this happen , once you allow , you will repent for the life , just through your , so called mate out from your heart and place , she should not help you to spoil your rest of the finer years yet to come . Understand and take sensible decision .
2006-08-09 00:02:30 · answer #9 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey ..if you want a little "girl on girl" action and don't mind sharing your man friend with your girlfriend, then make the 3 way a permanent thing. It can work out great!
otherwise .. turn the deal down.
2006-08-09 03:38:32 · answer #10 · answered by PlayTOE- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never ever share your boyfriend with your best friend! BAD IDEA!
If you are interested in having a threesome, go for someone that neither of you know. Believe me, doing it with someone you know only leads to heartbreak. And anyway, why don't you suggest one of his male friends and see how he reacts...
2006-08-09 03:45:12 · answer #11 · answered by Eileen M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋