hey i been with my boyfriend for almost a year we are getting married and i am 11 weekss preg with his baby, and i can't trust him.. we broke up for about 2 hours and he slept with a little s*ut...who pretended to be my friend, and i asked my boyfriend if he ever slept with her and he said no, and the next day he told me he has be lying to me and he did, he had the balls to tell me at least... and i DON'T wanna leave him and I know I'm dumb for not.. but I love him so much and he's really all I have, everyone tells me how pretty i am i can get whoever i want and i don't want anyone else.. some of my boyfriends friends tell me i should not trust him on how he acts around other females, and my friends tell me about stuff they hear about, i don't know if they are starting rumors or what, i have enough trust issues with him already, and how can i tell him that? i ask him about what i hear and he gets mad. and should i still believe whatever he says?
2006-08-08 23:53:34 · 7 answers · asked by kmkgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hi.
You said that you are pregnant. How did your boyfriend react on hearing that? The most important thing in love is trust and understanding. There should also be no betrayal otherwise things won't ever work out well. Have a conversation with him and try to sort things out. After that if you still feel that he is hiding things from you, then i would advice you to better leave him. It will be of no use to continue to be indulge in such a relationship. In the beginning you might find this really difficult but with time you will be ok. You should be very courageous. If he is not the right one for you, then you will surely find someone else. Pray to God and ask him to help you find a solution. He is the only one who will be able to help you. Wish you all the best.
2006-08-09 00:14:28 · answer #1 · answered by mehnaazishaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loose him now.
Trust me. Been there and the further you get into this pregnancy the worse you will feel and if u dont trust your man it will drive u crazy when u have the baby to, these issues will never go away because u no he cheated at least once and it will all end in tears. Dont drag it out.
Get away from the usless tosser and concentrait on the fact that u are going to have a baby who needs to be brought up in a loving home.
2006-08-09 07:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really need to ask if you can trust him?! I mean, a guy's friends don't blow his cover unless you have reason to not trust him, not to mention his actions sound like you shouldn't. If you're not willing to leave him, there's really no point in even asking this question.........just prepare yourself for years of heartbreak and wondering what he's doing.......what a fun life!
2006-08-09 07:33:47 · answer #3 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage will not make these problem go away, listen to your heart, and remember if u can't be alone and happy than u can't be in a relationship and be happy. open your eyes in do not be in denial
2006-08-09 07:05:56 · answer #4 · answered by vet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe he is a cheat. Accept it and carry on with him or leave. It's up to you.
2006-08-09 12:55:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him
2006-08-09 06:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by amazincajn_99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him wat an ***
2006-08-09 07:03:59 · answer #7 · answered by Eliza Dolittle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋