I have been in a deep relation with my bf over 2 years now.We loved each othr a lot.I stayed with him for the first year and half but later i had to move to another country.He was desperate to have me with him and I too was trying my best to get my job shifted to his country. My parents were not very happy about this relationship of ours but i had made up my mind to go against them to pursue my relation with this guy. we decided to get married soon but after some 6 months of staying apart, he got frustrated and thought i was playing games with him which i was not. i tried convincing him a lot but no use. one bad day, he tells me he wants to move on and cant continue the long distance relationship. he even started to have feelings for another girl. i am totally heartbroken becoz i was trying hard to get with him and he went away with some one else. i just cant get over this. i have lost faith in true love.Please help! i miss this guy a lot. i truly love him
2006-08-08 23:54:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he doesn't want you, you'll just have to get over him. Don't worry, you'll be fine. There are plenty of other guys out there. Why don't you go out partying with your girlfriends for a while? I'm sure you'll meet someone new soon.
2006-08-08 23:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
a couple of people already gave you great advice and i think morning star, hit it right on target. i'm sorry for your loss and i can truly sympathize. you've sacrificed a lot for this person and i can tell that you tried very hard to make things work. you are like me, it's either all or nothing. you love deeply and you hurt deeply. some people aren't like that and when the going gets tough, it's easier to walk away. people can convince themselves of just about anything, in order to justify their actions. your b/f sounds like one of those people. he's even taken interest in other girls and your relationship isn't even cold yet. if he was unable to wait for you, unwilling to understand your feelings and ready to move on even after you made plans to marry - realistically what kind of a stable future would you have with him? it appears to me that you were a lot more mature than he was and maybe that's why his patience wore thin.
you feel like you've lost faith in love, but that's only because your heart is broken. as long as you still have faith in yourself, your life will get better and your heart will heal. no one will ever love you as much as your parents. they gave you life and worry about your well being. if anything good comes out of this tragedy, it will be the fact that now you can mend the relationship with your folks. there's an old saying....don't be afraid to let something go, because you maybe blocking a Blessing. think about that paula.
you have a lot of love to give someone, save it for somebody that will love you the same and when adversity should arise - you'll have strength in each other.
2006-08-09 00:31:24 · answer #2 · answered by mangosmoothie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, I feel U Gal but Da main thing is Life has to Go On.. maybe he aint da One for U..Long Distance relationship is base on Truth n respect But I guess da Trust N respect wasnt there.. Its all About U Moving On, ur Still Young, U gat tyme to move On n Start a New Life.. Am sure dere re Loads of Guys Out dere who will Make U a Queen N Like U for Who u re.. Dont Give Up yet,Just make Sure U Put everyfing in God Hand cos with Him all is Possible.. but if ur meant to be together, he will Surely come around Beggin But U gat to move On..
2006-08-08 23:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by lloysbanks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love hurts and it never gets any better. If he gets frustrated and gives up on you, do you think he truly loved you? If you are all worked up about this guy and would even sever your relationship with your parents, don't you think he should make a huge sacrifice like you as well? I know matters of the heart are not easy, but you'll get over the pain with time. I suggest you don't mess up your relationship with your parents, guys will come and go, but you only get one set of parents. When they die, who will you replace them with? Don't think you've lost faith in love, just try to accept that this situation with this particular guy was not meant to be. Keep your chin up.
2006-08-09 00:04:17 · answer #4 · answered by morningstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh girl, i know guys suck! it is obvious that this relationship is over. if he can't love you in return, this guy is a loser. when the door of happiness closes another one opens. we often look so long at the closed door, that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.
get out there with your friends and start parting. this is the time you need them most. ask them to help you forget about that loser.
im sorry to hear about this loss, i don't trust males anymore!
2006-08-09 00:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by inkies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't shed your tears for someone who hurt you.Dont long for the person if they left. Don't feel sorry if you failed when you tried your best ,someone is out there more deserved for your time and love . Someday someone might come into your life and love you in a way you always wanted. If someday was Yesterday : Learn , If it's tommorow ; Hope, and if your Someday is Today: Cherishh!!!
2006-08-09 00:59:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough one! A part of me says you'll just have to deal with it, and another part of me says go for it and try one more time. If you don't tell him how you feel one more time, you might regret it for the rest of your life. Atleast if you try again, you won't always wonder what would've happened. I think you'll be somewhat satisfied, even if things don't work out the way you planned.
2006-08-09 00:01:27 · answer #7 · answered by Trish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thank god! what u r facing now...... is the worst you can think about ur love nd it might be ur future if u both were got married so he don't love you as much as you love him n u deserve better life partner...i know one couple they were in long distance relationship for 7-8 years and after that they gt married and now they r very happy:)
2006-08-09 00:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on For now everything is exactly what God knows it to be.It just was not meant to be, put yourself back out there in the dating game
2006-08-09 00:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by pycosal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cheated on your parents and he cheated on you! Thats it. I hav never seen a live-in relationship succeed! Hope...you will get another man who might have cheated another girl!
2006-08-09 01:57:01 · answer #10 · answered by Maddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋