i always make my own boyfriend hurt,i mean his heart,n he always be patient with me,until one day,he get tired in loving me n tired of being patient with me...i felt regret,n now i know i've lost a very big thing in my life...how can i get him back?
2006-08-08 23:38:05 · 28 answers · asked by Arya S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can't!
Don't try to control the things.. Sway with the tide and you'll get what you want
2006-08-08 23:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by Roland 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying going out to places where you fell in love. Go to the place where you first met him or to the place you had your first date, do something like this with him. It'll make both of you remeber the good times and realize what you would miss if you didn't have eachother. As far as the depression, you should seriously see a professional. They're the only ones that can really get to you and help you see that life is worth living, especially if you love someone and the love you back.
2016-03-27 04:58:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has fallen out of love with you - I doubt he will fall back in love with you - If he has been hurt by you but is still in love then the only thing you can do is be honest with him and tell him how you feel and admit to the mistakes you made. Then you are putting the ball in his court - so step back and allow him to think it over - he needs to know he can trust you again and sometimes this is impossible - good luck - maybe you have learned the hard way !
2006-08-08 23:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by flutterbitty69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go and tell him that you have realized how much he means to you and how important he is in your life. I also used to hurt my boyfriend and faced the same situation as yours. If your love is true, he will forget everything and will be back with you. But hey you should also learn to value him and promise yourself not to hurt him ever again. This is what I did and today we both are very happy together and more closer than ever before.Good luck!
2006-08-09 01:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by arzu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you try to make someone fall back in love with you, you might want to learn why you acted as you did in the first place so you don't do it again.
Playing with other people's feelings or deliberately hurting them is a symptom of something not right with yourself.
Work on getting yourself well before attempting a relationship again.
2006-08-08 23:42:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too late to apologize... but "Better late than never" You should tell him that u still love him a lot and u don't mean to hurt him like that... If he really loves u, then he will forgive all the things u have done to him. But if he doesn't, move on, and learn a lesson from this to have a better relationship
2006-08-08 23:51:03 · answer #6 · answered by suzielu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe give some thought to why you have acted this way with your boyfriend. This is a good time to work on your own issues because whether you wind up with him or with someone else, you don't want to hurt the people you love.
2006-08-08 23:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by PeggyS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always suggest to go see a therapist together. If he says no, I suggest you start a therapy for yourself in order to stop your destructive behaviour.
Some people tend to believe that they can be bad to the other one until they are sure they are love, then, by magic , they will become nice and sweet. Sweetness and love is made from sweetness, caring and love.
The most important is to learn from that story of yours.
Ask yourself if you would have stayed in a relationship with someone who treats you like you did?
2006-08-09 00:02:52 · answer #8 · answered by Jolia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first work out how you really feel.
Then decide if you are being realistic (waiting 7 years is not)
Then try to understand the reasons you broke up and go tell him that you have thought things over, apologize for making the errors you did, and see if there is any way to try again.
2006-08-08 23:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by PlayTOE- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend will still 'love' you I'm sure.......but ...he may not be 'in love' with you.... Being in love isn't something that you can switch on and off...Its a deep rooted natural emotion that you cant control. If your boyfriend isn't 'in love' with you, you would be better to stay friends but move on. I wish I could say different angel but I cant...good luck with your love life and remember..... you have learnt a very important lesson....treat the ones you love with the greatest respect...you'll be fine ..honest!
2006-08-08 23:56:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We always realize a persons true worth when we loose him. Tell him how u feel and tell him what a jerk you have been, tell him you realise how much he means to you and that he is the one for you. If he still has feelings for you he should come back
If he doesnt then try and learn to be a better person next time
Sanjay
2006-08-08 23:44:04 · answer #11 · answered by Sanjay B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋