Family & Relationships - 12 July 2006

I have been with my wife for about 5 years now. She was my first sexual partner(by choice). I wanted to wait till I found the right person. I love my wife very much, she means the world to me. But here lately I am always thinking about having sex with other women. Although I dont think I ever would or have tried I was wondering if its normal. Did I make a mistake in waiting? Thanks for your opinions.

2006-07-12 03:19:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She got traumatized going to school.

2006-07-12 03:18:30 · 16 answers · asked by Scent of Nutmeg 3 in Family

its all downhill starting the day after the wedding.....

2006-07-12 03:18:01 · 8 answers · asked by barrett j 2 in Weddings

2006-07-12 03:17:00 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-12 03:16:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I told my boyfriend today that I am feeling emotionally drained by our relationship. I spend all my time making him happy and comfortable and think about my wants and needs last if at all. I want to change our relationship so that I am more satisfied. I want to do some of the things I like to do instead of always doing things he likes (and I'm not talking about sex, just regular activities). He took this very badly. He thought I was trying to break up with him. I love him and don't want to leave him, but I want to change how we spend our time and how we divide up the housework. What is a good way to tell him this so he doesn't automatically think I want to leave him?

2006-07-12 03:16:34 · 16 answers · asked by Amaunette 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-12 03:16:14 · 13 answers · asked by deva 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 30 and currently dating a lovely gorgeous man who's 57 and I've never been happier in a relationship like this before. I know he's too old for me but is it wrong and anyones business? We enjoy each others company, have great conversations in and out of the bedroom. I've dated guys my age or a year or 2 older than me in the past but none of them compares this. If its not wrong then why do we get looks from others when we're out having dinner as a couple its not like we're all over each other???? Are they just jealous?

2006-07-12 03:15:49 · 51 answers · asked by Yoruba 3 in Singles & Dating

As you get older does it seem less and less that you get along with your parents or do you feel you parents respect you more since you are grown?

2006-07-12 03:15:32 · 8 answers · asked by ILovePizza 5 in Family

To my ex-husband: You tore my heart out. You stole my happiness. You stole my security. You stole my piece of mind. You desroyed everything I believed in. You destroyed our family. You have caused pain to me, our children, my family, and everyone who cares about us. You had NO RIGHT to treat me like that. Your daughters didn't deserve an absent father. They deserve better and so did I. I have news for you, your new life is not as great as you thought. You are lonely, I saw your ads. You deserve every bad thing that comes your way. You earned your loneliness. I am now happy. I have a man who loves me and he loves your girls. I am at peace. You can NOT have the part of me that loves and trusts. I have taken that back, it was not yours to take. You will probably die alone and afraid because you screwed over everyone in your life who has ever given a damn about you. I hope it was all worth it. You are nothing to me or your children. Enjoy your internet life, I hope it was worth it.

2006-07-12 03:14:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-12 03:13:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when u break up with someone and that its going to end up being a blessing in disguise. but u cant tell me that every break up is suppose to happen and that those 2 people should never get back together? every relationship is different right?

2006-07-12 03:13:10 · 1 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Singles & Dating

Like when you first start dating them, is it just their way of figuring out if you will respond to their thoughts of marrying you? Or is it because they actually want to marry you?

2006-07-12 03:12:45 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-12 03:12:42 · 15 answers · asked by Mrs. T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter will be two years old August 24th. I am currently pregnant and soon to be ready to have my son due August 9th. That makes them almost two years apart. We would like to have one more but can not decide whether to wait another two years or to go ahead and start trying after I am recovered from this one. How far apart is the spacing between your children and what do you recommend?

2006-07-12 03:12:24 · 18 answers · asked by mom2abigsis 2 in Family

2006-07-12 03:12:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my bro is moving into a new house soon any ideas of what gifts to send?funiture,electric stuffs he had all .

2006-07-12 03:11:55 · 16 answers · asked by mamil gold 2 in Family

I think i May be breaking a new record!!

2006-07-12 03:11:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

asked a question yesterday about my realtionship with my husband, and alto of people suggested that I seek counseling..... I think they are right, I"m being very self destructive. The problem is taht I'm afraid if I tell teh counsellor everything I"ve done, she may tell my husband, and I do'nt want that to happen. I feel like if I work on fixing myself to be better for him ,he'll never have to know what an awful person I"ve been. So can I really trust a conselor?

2006-07-12 03:10:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-12 03:10:47 · 3 answers · asked by nev 4 in Friends

2006-07-12 03:08:02 · 7 answers · asked by Adi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met the person with the morals and traits I wanted, but wasnt at all attracted to him right from the beginning. I eventually dated his brother and now have a kid with him. I was attracted to the father, but loved the brother.

2006-07-12 03:08:01 · 8 answers · asked by senacia 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-12 03:07:21 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-12 03:06:36 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Really, the girl has no sense of style...And I want to help her a lot, but she is very competitive, and she never admits that she is wrong. So, I am afraid that if I say that she needs some fashion advise and that some clothes really don't look nice on her, she will be sad and fight with me. I could ask my brother to tell her that (he also thinks that she dresses badly) but she could fight with him, and I don't want that, so...How can you tell someone, in a very nice way, that this person dresses really bad and needs some advise to go shopping??

2006-07-12 03:06:00 · 9 answers · asked by Davinci 1 in Family

2006-07-12 03:03:32 · 11 answers · asked by roses 2 in Singles & Dating

Well after what seems like a firytale two years and X many months now I feel completely confident that his is the girl for me, however, i know she wouldn't want to be engaged until we have an appartment together and she has her job secure at her salon. So my question is, do you think promise rings are stupid? Do you think i should get her one? I just really want to marry this girl, we are awesome together and we have a great times, we never fight, we disagree sometimes, but for the most part it's smoothe sailin with great sex. So here's the big question, do i get her a promise ring, or do i just ask her to marry me with a real ring knowing that she will probably say no to the real thing if i ask only due to her wanting to have a secure job and an appartment with me before we get engaged? Thanks for any advice, i've been sweating this one for a while now.

2006-07-12 02:59:13 · 8 answers · asked by Drew 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i was at hooters last night and a guy who was obvously drunk, came up to me wanting to push me around.. I told him no numerous times but he didnt get it because he approached me again and asked me again... i was like '' what part of NO dont you understand''....... please help me

2006-07-12 02:58:55 · 13 answers · asked by shortyonwheelz2005 3 in Family

as i love one person and he is my good friend.we use talk in night too.so i want to know that how will i come to know that he loves me or not

2006-07-12 02:58:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I separated from my husband some six months ago because of various problems. I'm now with a lovely man who is very kind and gentle, but the sex side of things is not so good. He seldom satisfies me. My husband, though, was great in bed and I do miss the physical relationship I had with him. I know my husband would like us to be together again, even though he now has another girlfriend. There will be an opportunity to see him in two weeks' time when we shall both be at a mutual friend's wedding reception.
The way I'm feeling now I don't think I will be able to refuse if he makes a move. We're both staying inthe same hotel overnight.
But I do feel guilty about my present boyfirend and how much it will hurt him.

2006-07-12 02:57:47 · 66 answers · asked by proelior 1 in Marriage & Divorce