Because you weren't ready to get married.
Or maybe because you married Mr. T and he was always going around calling you "fool", and he wouldn't get on an airplane, and then he was always inviting Murdoch and Face over, but never Hannibal... what is that about?
2006-07-12 03:15:10
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answered by Anonymous
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Depends on the couple, but in general I'd say unrealistic expectations. Lots of newlywed couples panic when the honeymoon starts to "wear off" and real life begins. It's unfortunate, too, as that's when couples really start to become "married," when they don't just see each other in the best light, when they have to face problems together.
The first "real" argument can be a terrible shock. You wonder if your spouse loves you anymore, if he or she *ever* loved you. And your own feelings aren't so clear anymore. Some even start to doubt that they are capable of love. But this is just panic. Fights are not the end of the world. They're going to happen. If one just takes a deep breath, forgets the nonsense that "love is never having to say you're sorry," and accepts that problems are going to come up and the only way to solve them is for both spouses to be adults...things will generally work out. In time, the panic goes away and is replaced by the knowledge that you're a team. And THAT is when you realize that getting married is the best thing you ever did.
It works like this for some people, anyway. I wish you both the best.
2006-07-12 10:16:32
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answered by Anonymous
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Many reasons. If you dated for only a short period of time you may have moved too fast. If you were to young and got married you may not have been mature enough to handle responsibility of marriage. Either the wife or husband is scared thinking about for the rest of my life aspect.Alot of people dont take marriage seriously.Some people dont work on problems they just give up early on and think its just easier to get divorced. if you really care about this then you can get counceling and try and work out your differences or see if you can and if that dosent work then think about divorce but at least try and save it first
2006-07-12 10:19:11
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answered by Anonymous
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Because people do so many things without the slightest thought process. Also, so many women expect a man will change after marriage and they never do, or women let themselves go once they have their man.
In my case, we changed nothing after we got married, and have been married 14 years.
2006-07-12 10:17:07
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answered by javelin 5
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Because of many things. Maybe you were not ready to marry, maybe you did not put enough work into the marriage. That is better answered internally.
2006-07-12 10:16:21
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answered by Nicole C 4
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Because people couldn't communicate with each other or realize that marraige wasn't right for them. Also because marraige is becoming less respected by people and the vows they take are mere words instead of sacred as they were meant years ago.
2006-07-12 10:17:04
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answered by moonshadow385 2
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maybe because you didn't really know the person you took this chance with. commitment like marriage is taken much too lightly these days, its a shame, especially if children are involved. good luck on next relationship...
2006-07-12 10:18:01
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answered by City slicker 5
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It doesn't if the partners are understanding and caring.Else it can end after 2 days (remember Britney Spears!)
2006-07-12 10:16:25
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answered by vanchit 2
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Because it was a mistake to begin with and the realization came a wee tad too late.
2006-07-12 10:15:47
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answered by kja63 7
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well inorder for a marrage to work there is alot of work that you must do love will not hold the marrage together
love respect understanding and spending lots of time together
my husband and i have been together for 6 years we do everything together and we are happpier than ever
2006-07-12 10:22:15
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answered by Anonymous
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