I met the person with the morals and traits I wanted, but wasnt at all attracted to him right from the beginning. I eventually dated his brother and now have a kid with him. I was attracted to the father, but loved the brother.
2006-07-12 03:08:01 · 8 answers · asked by senacia 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
nono.. i am best friends with the brother, and always have been. I am not interested in starting a relationship with him, he is just what i was looking for in a person. the father of my child is still a great friend. Their mom LOVES me, as I am just like her. She always wanted a daughter, and I fit that perfectly. I just always wondered how my life would be different if i was actually attracted to the brother, and actually HAD what I wanted in a man..
2006-07-12 05:41:37 · update #1
They are not the perfect mate if you are not sexually attracted to them.
2006-07-12 03:12:59 · answer #1 · answered by Joy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am now engaged to the perfect man, but when we met I had no idea what lay ahead for me. We knew each other about 5 months and there wasn't even a spark. We became close friends and then for no reason at all our friendship turned into something spectacular. So my advice to you is don't judge the situation or the person if there is no spark. Always follow your heart. Even if your head disagrees.
2006-07-12 10:16:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think you've gotten yourself into a little tangle: you love one brother, but screwed around and got pregnant by the other.
I doubt their mom likes you much!
Many times we find people we have a great bond with but do not have an sexual feelings for and many times we have sexual feelings for those who are really not good for us. I guess you have to think with both your head and your heart and not only one or the other. Thinking with your "you know what" will always lead you to the wrong person.
2006-07-12 10:45:25 · answer #3 · answered by okiedokey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand. I married a man who was perfect in every aspect but I was not at all attracted to him. I did my best, but in the end we ended up with a divorce. There is a fine line between friends and lovers.
2006-07-12 10:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by Blondeboredom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens all the time, you meet the perfect guy but sexually its just not there. I know how you feel, I had a boyfriend that I felt the same way about
2006-07-12 10:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by carolinayaya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly how u feel i was not at all sexually or physically attracted to hoim but he was so caring and loiving and let me just say dont mess up the relationship witha good person b/c thats what i did and u will feel really bad
2006-07-12 10:18:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh. that's tough. but there's a quote out there, "don't leave the one you love for the one you like."
2006-07-12 10:13:37 · answer #7 · answered by mary. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow
2006-07-12 10:11:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋