To my ex-husband: You tore my heart out. You stole my happiness. You stole my security. You stole my piece of mind. You desroyed everything I believed in. You destroyed our family. You have caused pain to me, our children, my family, and everyone who cares about us. You had NO RIGHT to treat me like that. Your daughters didn't deserve an absent father. They deserve better and so did I. I have news for you, your new life is not as great as you thought. You are lonely, I saw your ads. You deserve every bad thing that comes your way. You earned your loneliness. I am now happy. I have a man who loves me and he loves your girls. I am at peace. You can NOT have the part of me that loves and trusts. I have taken that back, it was not yours to take. You will probably die alone and afraid because you screwed over everyone in your life who has ever given a damn about you. I hope it was all worth it. You are nothing to me or your children. Enjoy your internet life, I hope it was worth it.
2006-07-12 03:14:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am at peace. I just had to get this off my chest. I have been in divorce court for 2 1/2 years. I have been wanting to say this to him for a long time. I am not angry anymore. I just needed a bit of closure. Feelings are really hard to dig out of your soul sometimes. I never really ever wanted to give him the power to know just how much he hurt me back then. Vent and closure on the internet. Ironic isn't it. The sex and pornography of the internet was too much of a temptation and ruined my marriage. I can now use it to heal the damage. Blessings to all with a broken heart. It will heal. You will love again.
2006-07-12 03:27:38 · update #1
Kudos to you. You took the words right out of my mouth. Don't worry, he'll get whats coming to him. They all do. I'm glad you found someone who loves you and your girls. I think all cheaters need to rot in ****. I think my ex-wife should join him. They'd probally make a good couple, Cheating on each other.
2006-07-12 03:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow! That was optimistically bitter. You have a good life now and that is all that matters. Do not wish him malice because what you wish on others may come back around to you. Your girls are happy and healthy and they know who has been there for them. Enjoy them and your life and let karma take care of the rest, like it already doing. Take solace in the fact that his actions made room for a real man to come along and show you true happiness. I am glad that you moved on with your life. Your children have and absent father and what seems to a wonderful DAD!!! Life is grand!!
2006-07-12 03:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that girlfriend! My ex left to be with his fling after us being together for 24 years. She turned out to be psycho and he had to get a restraining order just to get rid of her! My daughter hardly spoke to him for 2 years and he has still not earned her respect back. Because he no longer had me to take care of him - he gained 50 lbs., developed health problems, and lost all his hair. I met and married a man six years younger - who could be a stunt double for Tom Selleck. He treats me like I am the hottest thing since sliced bread. What goes around comes around. That's what they call Karma! You do need to let go of some of your hatred and anger because it will eat you up if you let it. Living well is the best revenge. Delight in your own happiness.
2006-07-12 03:24:30 · answer #3 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you felt compelled to post this message to him is a clear cut signal that you are not over it. When one finds peace and has truly moved on, doing something like this isn't necessary because he isn't worth the time, effort, or energy. If he sees this, he'll realize that he still has power over you.
2006-07-12 03:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by Taffi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you go to the trouble of putting this post just to hurt him if you didn't still care or were "happy?" You obviously haven't moved on as you say you have.
2006-07-12 03:17:41 · answer #5 · answered by parrotfan1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm happy you got that allll out of your system. Good for you that you we're able to move on and are hopefully sharing your life with someone who will be better to and for you.
2006-07-12 03:17:23 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! That was good! Hope you feeling better now after the outlash.
Take care!
2006-07-12 03:20:17 · answer #7 · answered by sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely put. Ive experienced this myself but only with one beautiful daughter and I never got married. Thank Goodness for that..
and Im still looking for my knight.. but it's only been a month search so far..
2006-07-12 03:19:34 · answer #8 · answered by senacia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!!!I hope that was theraputic for u..u had some major anger going on there......just look at it this way..he will reap whatever he sows!!!Sounds like u got your happiness while he's miserable i think u won!
2006-07-12 03:18:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Preach it sister ! You hit the nail on the head....
2006-07-12 03:18:37 · answer #10 · answered by duck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋