Family & Relationships - 4 July 2006

For our wedding my parents/relatives put about $1000 in a mutual fund. It was to help establish ourselves when (& if) we return to the US (we live in UK). As it looks unlikely we'll return to US w/in the next 5 yrs or so & as we could really use the money to move, I approached my dad & asked if I could get the money to help pay for a larger flat (me, hubby & 7 mnth old son in studio flat, ouch). Deposits here can be brutal, & after hefty battle the HA is refusing to give us a flat because we "don't have enough points". My folks refused, stating that we should try to earn the money & that hubby should get a job. Whilst I appreciate that this money was for special use, I work 2 jobs whilst hubby's full time carer of our son (personal choice for us both) and money is tight. We'd like to move out asap, and not have to wait 6-7 months to save the ££ up. We are not lazy people and we wouldn't have asked, but we exhausted all other options. Are we in the wrong?

2006-07-04 03:24:19 · 10 answers · asked by Disgruntled Biscuit 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I always complain, that is my imperfection. And he has done nothing wrong. I love him so much, and I don't want to lose him. But he has asked me if I'd like to break up, because he feels that he's constantly letting me down, constantly hurting me. I couldn't bear to lose him, and I've told him that. I'm trying to change, just for him, but I don't think it's working...

2006-07-04 03:23:52 · 14 answers · asked by Caryssa 2 in Singles & Dating

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2006-07-04 03:21:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How many girls will kill or grab a bug and throw it out without freaking out? How many girls can't, and have to get your man to do it for you?

2006-07-04 03:20:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so many people dies and no accidents in route to heaven or hell

2006-07-04 03:20:43 · 4 answers · asked by sarabhai2005 1 in Friends

2006-07-04 03:20:42 · 21 answers · asked by Jacque 1 in Singles & Dating

i don wanna hurt her feelings.

2006-07-04 03:19:32 · 4 answers · asked by Lantei N 1 in Friends

just asking! LOL!

2006-07-04 03:18:47 · 9 answers · asked by Vinci43 1 in Friends

They fall in love with the guy just the way he is, the way he dresses and acts. But when the relationship gets serious or they get married, the women seems to want to change him by buying him clothes that she likes not that he likes and stuff like that. I mean you liked em the way he was why try and change him now?

2006-07-04 03:18:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with this guy for almost 4 years now. Our realtionship started out a lil rocky but we are still together and still trying to work things out in this relationship. Early on in the relationship, I found out from one of his relatives that he had a baby on the way. But, he waited two years to come clean about the whole thing. He had met me while he was still living with his baby momma. She got pregnant the same month we met. Last year, he just told me that he just stopped messing with her in 2004 (while we were 2 years into OUR relationship) We worked things out even after all this. Then came the drama. His baby momma started acting crazy (breaking into his house, pouring bleach on his clothes, stabbing him with a knife,)I've tried my best to b patient wit this situation. Last month his baby mom gave birth to a new baby boy. She says its his..he says its not. His whole family says its his...But i STILL LOVE HIM and I want us to work.. what am i to do

2006-07-04 03:18:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this[really shy] guy......in the begginning of the year I found out from one of my friends that he had a crush on me. I'd never really noticed him before [he goes to my church] and would've never really taken a double glance at him, had it not been for the fact he had a crush on me. Ok so a couple of months go by and I'm still pretty confused about my feelings for him. I guess I really did like him in the beggining, and he sort of grew on me. I'm not allowed to date till I'm 16, but he told me he'd wait for me. The point is, I've been telling everyone that I like him and he really likes me and he thinks I like him the same way, but the thing is, I just don't know how I feel about him. I'm so confused. He's got such a sweet personality...did I mention he's really shy? And he's so....inexperienced in bf/gf relationships [as am I] (meaning I'd be his first gf vice versa ect.) I know you can't really get into my head and say 'oh you like him' and all but from my POV wat would u do?

2006-07-04 03:16:57 · 15 answers · asked by K 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 2 years and every time the I make love to my wife all she wants me to do is go down on her and then have intercourse. She doesn't even like me to hold her after. I tried talking to her about it but she just says that is how she is and she is just not a typical woman.

2006-07-04 03:16:41 · 16 answers · asked by Duece 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been moved around many times, and find it hard to make real friends. One person, who I have known since the 4th grade talked to me when I lost contact with all of my other friends when moving out of state. We would talk everyday for about 2 hours a day, which is expensive. I recently moved back home, where she lives and we go to the same school. She introduced me to her friends, and I started hanging out with them in the morning since her and I have no classes together. Most of the other people that hang out with us are guys. I know three of them very well. She recently started "dating" a guy, and now she doesn't talk to me anymore. We are on summer break, and none of them call/talk to me except her ex. I am really not good at meeting new people, but people in my family say that these people are not my true friends, and that I should make new ones. Do you agree with my family?Why or why not? What do you think I should do?

2006-07-04 03:16:13 · 6 answers · asked by mrs_herman452 2 in Friends

2006-07-04 03:15:59 · 17 answers · asked by The Princess of Pleasure 3 in Singles & Dating

hey im a 15 yr old girl there is this really cute guy in my class who i hav crush on i dunno but iv seen him staring at me 2 to 3 times im not sure if he likes me or not coz he dosent say anything we hardly talk even i dont coz i dont know wat to talk with him so i wanted to kow a few signs tht show me if this guy likes me or not

2006-07-04 03:15:05 · 4 answers · asked by cute gal 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you expect your "faithful" man to perform like "The Maintenance Man" if you only call him for service every other month an still expect him to remain faithful? These are just arguments that I have had with some female friends.

2006-07-04 03:14:54 · 8 answers · asked by mjmojaz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

our teacher invited us(the whole class) to his home to eat dinner with him and his family. I know this sounds crazy and believe me it is but he really invited us....lol. but i dont know what to wear: any ideas.?

2006-07-04 03:14:06 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-04 03:13:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

procedure

2006-07-04 03:13:52 · 5 answers · asked by sarabhai2005 1 in Friends

Sometimes I leave my house in the morning with every good intention to have a good day, a good attitude, and make the best of everything. Then there is some A$$ who ruins my day from the vey beginning. On a busy holiday weekend a lot of people are out running errands. Waiting your turn at 4 way stops is a pain, but it is necessary. I waited and this prick descides he wasn't going to wait. I honked at him and he smiled and waved. I made sure to getright next to him at the light and cuss him and his wife out. THEY LOOKED SUPRISED!!! WHY????? OK, that is over, you try to move past it and take another start to the day. Then for some strange reason, the person in front of you and of course on your side are driving minivans and refuse to obey the speed limit and the rules of the road and will NOT get out of the fast lane and are basicly holding you hostage at 45 in a 55mph zone. I am a normal person but have become a homicidal maniac behind the wheel. Do you feel this way too?????

2006-07-04 03:13:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-04 03:11:58 · 37 answers · asked by edsoames 1 in Singles & Dating

We dated twice. We both like each other. The first time, I went to his office, he was excited and when I said I was leaving, he asked to hug me and he was on me, but he didn't dare to touch my breasts. The second time, when we dated, he was so excited and touched my body. When we first had sex(by hands), he was nevous and I didn't feel his erection for the two times. I guess, he is suffering from erection dysfunction or something wrong with his organ. Another thing I know is he (43 years old, never married), most likely is a she. After that we didn't date. Anyhow, I just keeping thinking of him, of his kindness, politeness, being considerate of others. What should I do with this? How can I get rid of him out of my mind?

2006-07-04 03:10:56 · 20 answers · asked by Lily 1 in Singles & Dating

this week I will be presented to a male relative whom I haven' t met properly before, meaning that I haven' t talked to him or spent longer time near him. This person is someone very dear to someone who is very dear to me, so I want to be friends with him. Besides he' s shy. Any suggestions?

2006-07-04 03:07:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

why cant u like them backk?.. it's kinda like i just dont have the same feeling for them??.. someone help me..

2006-07-04 03:07:23 · 14 answers · asked by bLessed; 1 in Singles & Dating

My father-in-law has emphazema and decided now that he almost died to quit smoking. We have bought him a cordless phone so he doesnt have to get up to answer or call anyone. He got a coffee maker rather than him going to his local coffee dive every morning. He is capable of making it.
My husband who works a 50hr week, has me and our 3 boys at home, gets up EVERY morning and gets his Dad coffee and a newspaper. This leads him to getting to work late and thus staying late and missing dinner with us. This has been for 2 months. I understand my husband is worried about his Dad, but EVERY DAY? It is 9:53 am and he has already called asking if he's getting coffee this morning or not. He has become quite demanding and my husband says he feels bad saying no more. I suggested to arrange 1-2 mornings a week to see him, the other days he can use his coffee maker or get one of my husand's 3 siblings to help out, and a subscription to the paper. Am I being mean What can I do to change this?

2006-07-04 03:06:01 · 5 answers · asked by lorihurley03 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you were to want to become better at being socialble, do you think it would be more helpful to spend most of your time and energy on meeting new people as often as possible, or developing your own current relationships?

2006-07-04 03:05:41 · 8 answers · asked by JudasHero 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Mi mama me conto que Hose esta contigo en mexico jajajaj se perdonaron!!! que bien, yo no le dije nada a mi mama fresca. Solo le pregunte que habia sabido de ti....y me conto. me alegra

oye cuando llega nati?? a donde la puedo llamar?? para recoger mis zapaticos....jijij

un beso

2006-07-04 03:04:00 · 3 answers · asked by atanasgagov 2 in Singles & Dating

and if we could get together this weekend and he said we'll talk later. He works nights so I understand. Now is this a good sign? Remember we had sex the first night he came back to me after waiting for him for 5 years. He was under the influence but he really wanted me and I really wanted him on every level. So is it? It took him 2 days. Oh yeah and remember, he had been drinking so he had some impotency problems going on but we worked around that.

2006-07-04 03:03:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is the title of an article published in The Observer Magazine a few weeks ago. Who among you relates and how is that true for you?

2006-07-04 03:01:51 · 23 answers · asked by mmaybe mme 2 in Family

its kinda gross. why not just do it with your partner. is she not good enough? i dnt understand why ugly hairy men get off at women.

2006-07-04 03:01:31 · 22 answers · asked by Ensee 2 in Singles & Dating