why cant u like them backk?.. it's kinda like i just dont have the same feeling for them??.. someone help me..
2006-07-04 03:07:23 · 14 answers · asked by bLessed; 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok I am going through the same thing. This guy likes me and I don't like him at ALL, but I do like someone else and he likes me back. So I am going with the guy who likes me back and I like him. You can tell the other guy that you don't like him or you can just not tell him and if someone else breaks ups with you than can have him. this may not make sense to you. Another thing is you never want to make yourself try to like someone. If you really want to like him back just see the good things in him not the bad. Hope that helps
2006-07-04 03:10:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess your question shows concern of the other person... if someone like you so much but you don't feel the same thing you have to inform this to the person concern in a good approach... and of course you have to set limitations if the person still push his/her feeling... I had my bestfriend but I had to give up the relationship because my bestfriend can't stop this feeling...
2006-07-04 10:13:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your likeness or hatredness is governed by a set of rules made by your brain and your mind.this rules vary from person to person.Someone likes you because you fit into the criteria or norms of the person liking you.But if that person doesn't fit in to the criteria fixed by your intellect and your mind you won't be able to like him/her.It's an automated procedure and you cannot control that.Feelings or emotions are also governed by laws dear[a very scientific explanation,ya??????]
2006-07-04 10:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by bhgat9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the heart wants what the heart wants and you cant change that.
I am sure that there have been times when you have liked someone and they don't feel the same. this is life and it is what makes the world go round.just always be sure to love yourself and you will find many blessings in your life
2006-07-04 10:13:06 · answer #4 · answered by Angellove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like them, tell them. Honesty is the best thing. Don't put yourself and them through it. I think their are people that you have an amazing connection with and want to spend your every moment with and who treats you right. Don't settle for anything less. I found it with my husband. I am so incredibly happy.
2006-07-04 10:13:38 · answer #5 · answered by natasha s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no how u feel
i happens u cant help u dont want to hurt the other person but u just dont have the same feeling as they do.
2006-07-04 10:10:46 · answer #6 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not easy to tell them, but once you do, you will be at peace and life will continue as it should. So...just tell them, I am sorry, I just don't feel the same way and go on about your business.
"The truth shall set you free"
2006-07-04 10:20:39 · answer #7 · answered by redgirl9992004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your question, you don't feel the same way as he does and that's that. Just move on, let him know and be happy.
2006-07-04 10:11:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no how you feel, if its not there then there is nothing you can do to change it.
just explain you only want friendship.
good luck
2006-07-04 10:12:36 · answer #9 · answered by JJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, it's weird. the person u like doesn't like u bak. but the one u really don't like, likes u. grrr.
2006-07-04 10:11:33 · answer #10 · answered by smashmouth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋