I have been moved around many times, and find it hard to make real friends. One person, who I have known since the 4th grade talked to me when I lost contact with all of my other friends when moving out of state. We would talk everyday for about 2 hours a day, which is expensive. I recently moved back home, where she lives and we go to the same school. She introduced me to her friends, and I started hanging out with them in the morning since her and I have no classes together. Most of the other people that hang out with us are guys. I know three of them very well. She recently started "dating" a guy, and now she doesn't talk to me anymore. We are on summer break, and none of them call/talk to me except her ex. I am really not good at meeting new people, but people in my family say that these people are not my true friends, and that I should make new ones. Do you agree with my family?Why or why not? What do you think I should do?
2006-07-04 03:16:13 · 6 answers · asked by mrs_herman452 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My friend, there is no friend!!
2006-07-04 12:17:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I absolutely agree with your family. A "true" friend is one who is always there for you, during the good times and the bad. Just because she is dating someone, doesn't mean see should ignore you, although I can tell you, I've see this happen many times. People find boyfriends...and ignore their friends. Then...after they break up, there they are again...right at your side, wanting to be friends again. You have to make the decision whether you want to remain friends with this person if and when that happens! But beware....this will happen again when the next boyfriend comes around!!!
2006-07-04 03:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely agree with your family. A "true" friend is one who is always there for you, during the good times and the bad. Just because she is dating someone, doesn't mean see should ignore you, although I can tell you, I've see this happen many times. People find boyfriends...and ignore their friends. Then...after they break up, there they are again...right at your side, wanting to be friends again. You have to make the decision whether you want to remain friends with this person if and when that happens! But beware....this will happen again when the next boyfriend comes around!!!
2006-07-04 03:24:01 · answer #3 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, I'm leaning towards agreeing with your parents because being a true friend consists of two things...being there when you need them and being there when you don't need them. If you haven't caught on, that means that they should be there through all things...even dating someone new.
One thing that I could not comprehend when I was dating a boy was that my best friend was there for me even when I was a complete jerk to her. It was incredible after we had a mutual break-up when she was still there just as she had been before I started dating him...and it had been 4 months of complete idiocy.
I hope you find an amazing friend, sweetie. In the meantime...just focus on things to do yourself. It can be fun to go shopping or to a movie on your own. Alone time is not a bad thing!
2006-07-04 03:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by cairceylee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are not true friends cos if they were, they wont stop calling or talking to u. i suggest u get in contact with them and ask them why they are doing all this, i u find out that they are not worth it then u just have to let go and find new friends.
2006-07-04 03:44:56 · answer #5 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm so , i dont know u wud believe this or not just i was too abt to put a quetion like this for truefriends as u hav done before me , its nice to see this .
so if u like we can chat . rite now
2006-07-04 03:22:15 · answer #6 · answered by dont_say_freak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋