We dated twice. We both like each other. The first time, I went to his office, he was excited and when I said I was leaving, he asked to hug me and he was on me, but he didn't dare to touch my breasts. The second time, when we dated, he was so excited and touched my body. When we first had sex(by hands), he was nevous and I didn't feel his erection for the two times. I guess, he is suffering from erection dysfunction or something wrong with his organ. Another thing I know is he (43 years old, never married), most likely is a she. After that we didn't date. Anyhow, I just keeping thinking of him, of his kindness, politeness, being considerate of others. What should I do with this? How can I get rid of him out of my mind?
2006-07-04 03:10:56 · 20 answers · asked by Lily 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seek professional help.
2006-07-04 03:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't tell why you stop dating. Did he decided it? Well, the answer to this question is very important to know what advise we could give you. If he was the one who decided it then try to move on and if you were the one...why suffer when you have all the time to go and talk to him and find out what was wrong. Communication is alway the key to any kind of relationship.
2006-07-04 10:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by Summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know that he is a she? This part I'm not sure I understand. But what if this person is a she? Does it matter to you? Love is love no matter who it exists between. I honestly believe that if two people can connect on that level that nothing else matters, but in reality other things do matter. If its not an option for you to accept this, could you still be friends with this person? Or is it possible that you only think about this person now because you realized it will never happen?
2006-07-04 10:17:00 · answer #3 · answered by sapientia2010 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is really a he and just has a hard time getting it up. Talk to him if you still like him and find out. If not go out and date someone else. And you said you didnt feel his erection? Well did you feel anything there. I mean there is a differnce between a male and female body parts.
2006-07-04 10:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by sweeetkisses2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if "he" is a "she"...move on...deception is the worst. If you are curious...find a girl who is bi..girls treat girls better than men treat girls because they know each other so well (expectations, touch). But a real man will be the same and he would want you to stroke his member...keep that in mind, sweets...men WANT to be touched there. If there's ED...he'd be talking to you about it. Not running the other way.
2006-07-04 10:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by JERRY M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how do u know if u guyz r really good friends then just ask him if he likes guyz. i mean it may be a lil wierd but hey just go for it u have nothing to loose. if not then ask him if he still thinks of u in a sexual way if he dose then date him again and trry it. i mean me and my friend thats gay i used to like him and still do and he used to like me. but niw me and him r like a young version of a will and grace u know ppl may laugh but when we kiss or like tell eachother we luv u u know ppl may look at us like we r stupid but hes gay i cant help that. so get up off ur computer chair and go ask him if he still thinks of u in a sexual way u have nothing to loose. hope that helps. good luck.
2006-07-04 10:21:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him or her tell ask come right to the no beating around the bush just be sencere tell what you want maybe youll get have of that and see what they expect and maybe you can do half of that but be truthful
2006-07-04 10:16:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, you mad me laugh so hard i think Im a she now...LOL
ask to see his penis, or take his pants off and look for yourself. If he cant get hard he aint no good to ya anyway is he? And maybe if hes a she you might be into that to..
2006-07-04 10:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by SPAWN-DA BAMBRICK 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems you are into he/she's? If you know it might be a female and you are still interested just seek the girls from now on. You know, BI or Lesbian?
2006-07-04 10:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to stop thinking about him? It sounds like you really like him, even if just as a friend. I don't see any good reason why you couldn't keep in contact.
2006-07-04 10:15:25 · answer #10 · answered by lizwatson109 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋