and if we could get together this weekend and he said we'll talk later. He works nights so I understand. Now is this a good sign? Remember we had sex the first night he came back to me after waiting for him for 5 years. He was under the influence but he really wanted me and I really wanted him on every level. So is it? It took him 2 days. Oh yeah and remember, he had been drinking so he had some impotency problems going on but we worked around that.
2006-07-04 03:03:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ummm…. I hate to say this, but that doesn’t sound like a very good sign. There are many reasons for this, but the most obvious being that he didn’t text you back saying, “I miss you too”. I consider myself to be a very independent woman, who likes to go against the ‘rules’. Unfortunately, there are almost always unmentioned rules that come along w/ dating and games to be played. I am so sick of men telling me that they are tired of playing games, but unless they are highly evolved, they still do.
Men don’t like to be chased. They like to do the chasing. In fact, they love the thrill of the chase. It seems that if you give in too soon, and admit your feelings toward them, the chase is over; game over. They are now on to their next prey.
Now, the fact that you slept w/ him right away, and that he was inebriated, doesn’t help either. First off, he captured his prey. And secondly, men will tell you anything (when they are horny and drunk) just to get you into bed. They will tell you many things they don’t mean in such a situation. So, it’s not surprising to me that the dynamic between the two of you changed when the next day came and he sobered up.
I feel for you. I know what it’s like to want someone and then have him finally tell me what I want to hear. However, you need to check yourself and the situation, in order to make sure this is really coming from his heart or his smaller head. I guess you will know soon enough what he wants to tell you. I am actually curious to know. He may surprise you and tell you that he misses you too. However, don’t be surprised if he asks you to back off a bit and give him some breathing space. If this is the case, don’t call him and date other people; hopefully he will come around. And, if he doesn’t, it just wasn’t met to be. But trust me, you will find a guy that will adore you just as much as you adore him; not all guys a re just looking for a quick fling.
2006-07-04 03:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by Layla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're good, yet understand that if issues would not artwork out and you're able to be able to't restoration it then the relationship basically wasn't meant to be. in basic terms those that come out of the fights and argument will final, now if he can forget the combat and not positioned to lots ability into it then think ofyou've have been given a threat to start up new and sparkling with him. keep attempting to call him.
2016-11-01 04:43:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish you luck and hope that everything works out for you because you sound like a real nice person and you deserve the best, so if this bloke doesn't give you the best, dont worry you will find someone who will appreate you
Good Luck
2006-07-04 03:14:59 · answer #3 · answered by xr5turbo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 22 y/o and personally am very old fashioned when it comes to dating(opening doors, paying for the date, and such) So i would say that if he is not willing to chase you to show you that he is that interested in you then he isn't worth dating. this shows to me that he wants everything handed to him. which in turn means that if he does date you and someone else shows interest in him and makes it easy for him he might go for it. I would try to find a proper gentleman there arent many left but they are out there.
2006-07-04 03:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by commander_fernandez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey any time one or both sexual partners have been drinking...and esp. if they are drunk...never take anything that happens to heart. He may be regretting what he did now....he was drunk. And for you to let him take you while he was drunk.....and actually expect him to be involved with you how naive are you. Move on...find sumone else who doesnt have to be drunk to be with you.
2006-07-04 03:11:47 · answer #5 · answered by kiss_of_angel_20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God Bless you in your search in finding the truth as the truth will set you free.
2006-07-04 03:06:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him call you. If he doesn't, he just isn't that interested, and move on. He probably isn't right for you neway.
2006-07-04 03:09:42 · answer #7 · answered by butterfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now he is tired off that gymnastic.
2006-07-04 03:09:32 · answer #8 · answered by pdotsee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
toooooooooo long a question to answer!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-04 03:12:34 · answer #9 · answered by pancho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋