Having had 3 relationships with women that have deep commitment phobia issues , im starting to wonder if i have similar issues, since I chase these types of women in the first place.
I also tend to get them to fall for me quickly, being the white knight always trying to help or protect them, promising them the world emotionally and genuinely meaning it.
I then hang around when the initial "honeymoon" period has ended and its obvious that they have issues with the reationship. I end up being treated badly until the relationship is virtually worthless. Im also confused by their inability to say "Go" to me or to say "Lets finish it" .....
Finally I always hear them say but "I really love you , but dont want to hurt you" ....very confusing since their action are doing exactly that and I keep coming back for more....rather than saying this relationship has changed and get out myself.
Instead I try to get them to fall back in love with me and rekindle the "Honeymoon" period
2007-12-31
08:19:51
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