So, I have a friend who I love dearly, but since I felt like I was doing most of the work in the friendship, i.e I always call her, & she had shown a bit of flakiness (**says she'll call, but does not, OR does not get back to me, *even though I leave a message to do so), & it only seemed or seems like she only contacts me, when it's about her*, & not just cuz, I decided to distance myself. I *did not want to do this, but I felt in order for me to know that she is a true** friend, I had to not contact her, & see if she cares enough to know why & see if she actually calls me or messages, as a true* friend would do that, instead of not giving a damn. ~Anywho, I still care for her, so out of my heart, I sent her a Christmas card (I DID NOT EXPECT ANYTHING FROM HER ) I did it because I care. ~I just got an Xmas card from her, today to be exact, & in it, she wrote a short message but ended with "Love you much", Love- Jackie". Should I still distance or message her like I had planned?..
2007-12-22
15:29:28
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Cherryberry
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