i talked to my girlfriend, but she's pissed and really doesnt care if i change my attitude or not. i've tried to show her that i can be more open and trust her more, but she really doesnt care. in fact, she just broke up with me... is there a way for me to get her back?
2007-12-22 15:30:16 · 8 answers · asked by lorenzo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try to learn what you can from this and do better next time with the next girl. she is done with you. you already blew that one. find another girl and act better.
2007-12-22 15:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey lorenzo, what's up papa. Are you by chance hipanic or lived a life where people have always or somehow disrespected you? Because, if you are hispanic or been disrepected, then you should'nt be in a relationship. First you have to learn how to treat people, that they are just human and people will always in some form or another disrespect you because of your beliefs and how you view the world. When one gets into any relationship, one has to expect feeling disrespected. But, that's just it your view and prospective on how you view life. Sooner or later you will have to be open, but about what can happen in life. And trust that your reaction is the best possible one with out hurting anyone but also standing up for what you believe in. You don't mention why you're not open and why you don't trust her. You want a relationship because you feel alone and you want to share anything and everything with someone or you just want a relationship because everybody else is or has one. It takes a lot from ones part to commit. Give her time, be her friend not her father or brother or uncle or what ever roll you're playing that's making her feel these feelings that she doesn't care anymore. It might even be to late. As some one else in here said learn from it and move on. But if you truly want to know what love is then let her go and accept that you may have a messed up attitude towards life. Or she can just be a control freak that wants what she wants when she wants it. Selfish and selfcentered. But don't act the fool in making her feel that she is wrong, one can never change anyone only life it self can change someone if the pain is great enough. Give her time and let it play out, but if you think you wasted enough time them move on. Talk to me papa, and let me know the real reason of what's really going on. Is it her, is it you or is it both of you. How old are you guys? Maturity plays a big part in a relationship papa. Much love and respect. Suave!
2007-12-22 15:59:01 · answer #2 · answered by J C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well you have to show her you romantic so if your a music person right her a song and by flowers i think thats sweet if a guy did that for me or you could right a poem also by flowers but in the song or poem tell her how you messed up and your sorry and that living without her is like living with out water impossible
i wish you the best good luck
2007-12-22 15:36:23 · answer #3 · answered by Fallen4u<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love to help, but I don't know much about
what's going on so I'll do my best.
If she wants you to change your attitude and that's
part of who you are, then don't even think about it.
Because changing your identity for someone is so
not worth it. I'm sure you could get her back, but
you have to think of a way and the different things
you must do to get her back.
2007-12-22 15:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by Perfect Imperfection♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care enough to get her back, then you need to evaluate what's wrong with you and what you did to make her break up with you, and change it. Any woman who you truly LOVE is worth changing over!
2007-12-22 15:35:11 · answer #5 · answered by Mike D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time and give her space ..let her know you are available to talk when she calms down over whatever is going on between the two of you...don't nag her she will run away from u ...
2007-12-22 15:34:06 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flowers. (but be wary of red roses, b.c those have a powerful meaning)
2007-12-22 15:33:49 · answer #7 · answered by r{rockstar} 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends. what you do to piss her off to begin with/
2007-12-22 15:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋