Ok so I was adopted when I was around 7, this was an international adoption so it was closed. Once I received a letter when I was 8 or 9 from my biological parent asking for cash but my adoptive parents discarded it, because, I mean who asks an 8 yr old for cash, right?!
Anyways later on my biological mother and brother would make contact with me again via email, everything was fine in talking with them until they began asking for money , I'm not a bad person so initially I would send some cash ($200 )every 3 months or so.
I work, and my husband does too, but he began to say that I didn't have to, and I kinda agreed, we were having trouble paying for our 3 yr old daughters daycare and so on. So my question is, is it right for them to keep on asking, when I have said I don't think it's appropiate or my responsibility,
I feel that the only reason they talk to me is to ask for something, it's never to just say hi, I don't want to feel guilty. So what should I do?
2007-12-21
04:18:12
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