I've have let my daughter go way overboard in the disrespect area with my husband largely because I feel guilty that her biological father is not in her life. (never has been) My husband, her stepfather is a good man, he has his flaws, and I have let her get away with many sly comments and at the expense of his feelings many times. I am not proud of this, I want to change, it gets really hard because she is at "that" age and many times I can see her side of things, which I know in the long run my husband is right and has her best interest in hand. Just how sucky of a mom am I being when I don't stand up (at the moment things are happening) Ok, I don't need a barage of finger pointing, just some ideas how to not get caught up in the middle of their fights, and stay objective, and head strong. It gets hard, its my husband and my daughter, I love both and they are driving me crazy with the fighting over everything.
2007-11-27
01:45:38
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Tamm
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