My boyfriend of four years and I have been doing really well lately. But for the past little while, we've been bickering. Last night he was so frustrated he left for an hour to cool down, and tonight he left. He says I'm being controlling, I say I need certain things from our relationship (ie. equality in household chores, affection, support). So how do I communicate what I need without being a nagging b!t(h? I love him and he loves me, we just can't seem to get a few things straight, which is what I think is holding us up. When I try to talk he doesn't want to hear it. He just doesn't really talk, unless he's already upset, then it doesn't make a ton of sense. He is a wonderful person, and I think we make a good team - I just want to get some of the kinks ironed out before it becomes too much bickering and we lose each other.
2007-11-09
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Marriage & Divorce