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How far is too far when you change yourself to please other people? Is it when you start acting stupid just so people would laugh? Is it when you stop hanging out with your old friends so you could talk to your new ones? Is it when you can barely start a a casual conversation with them? How far is too far, and is there any way to go back?

2007-11-09 16:57:59 · 4 answers · asked by vcast! 1 in Family & Relationships Friends

4 answers

If I am going to change to please anyone it will be for JESUS and no one else.You cannot go to far to please HIM
Be yourself, be a leader not a follower regardless of who you offend and if it cost a few friends for being a decent human being and doing what is right then they weren't much of a friend now where they?

2007-11-09 17:03:18 · answer #1 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0 0

You should never, never change yourself to please someone else, if you have to, you shouldn't be their friend. Then they're friends with someone you're pretending to be, not really you. So how far is too far? Taking the first step to changing yourself for someone else is too far. If you've gone way past to far, you can try to go back. You can go back to being your old self with your old friends; it will make life much better for you. If you went so far that you stopped talking to your old friends, then you have to get them to forgive, chances are they will. Everyone makes mistakes and they learn from them; they'll forgive your old self, the one they were friends with.

2007-11-09 17:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i personally think that it depends on the person, if your tring to be someone else for any reason the friends you make while being someone else isn't going to last and your happiness will be temporary, real friends who like you and respect you for who you are will be the one's there for you because they've seen and experienced BOTH your imperfections and perfections :]

2007-11-09 17:11:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i cant even change for those persons who cant really accept me for who i am or what i am.........

coz most of the times, if i change myself for them they still didnt care, they still do the same things they're doing to me

2007-11-09 23:32:35 · answer #4 · answered by ihateyou 2 · 0 0

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