We have a male friend of the family who carries a torch for my wife; she knows this, has told me, and has said it's under control, she's told him she can't go there, she loves me and doesn't fancy him. I've no reason to doubt this, and am pretty certain nothing untoward has gone on, but would like any married women's opinions on two little incidents; the first is the fact that when she emailed him three pics of a group day at the beach one of them was just of her, in a bikini. the other is when I happened to walk in on them working on a computer project; something had just gone wrong on screen, causing him to sigh in exasperation, at which she lent over and put her forehead on his shoulder in a kind of empathy thing I guess. A little bit of me wonders if these two incidents are really a good idea with a guy you wish to clearly put off any hope of romatic ideas? Or am I just getting paranoid?
2007-10-25
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