We broke up a year ago...and I absolutely hate him and never even thought about him until he popped into my dreams,,,,in my eyes he is a coward...so how do I stop having dreams about him?
2007-10-25 23:27:42 · 9 answers · asked by MissLady 3 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
before you go to sleep,be in a position of something you like which has nothing to do with him.dont think of your new boyfriend either.then,think of something about the posture your in,like cycling or eating.
2007-10-26 02:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! for about the past 2 or three weeks, I have been having dreams about my ex and we also broke up a lil over a year ago. I cannot stand him at all. I have 2 kids by hiim and don't have any contact with him. This past week has been especially full of dreams about him. It's so weird and I've been wondering why also.
Sorry i cant help, just thought it was a weird coincidence to share :0)
2007-10-26 06:44:25 · answer #2 · answered by Real Talk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it interesting that you bring up that he is a coward to you, I think that is pertainent, so the question it brings up for me, is have you had a situation in your life where you reacted in a way that you now feel was a cowardly way to deal with it? It could be that your ex has popped in to your dreams as a pointer toward your feelings about a situation in your waking life, if you think he is a coward, he may have become a symbol for cowardice in general in your mind. You will get a better interpretation if you can offer a clearer story about the dream itself, what happened in the dream, and what your boyfriend was doing, as well as what were you doing in your dream........ Recurring dreams point to an issue you need to resolve, when you resolve it, then the dreams will stop......... I looked over your q and a's to see if I could find any clues in your questions, the only one I can find that could have any bearing on it, maybe could be that you recently quit a job and didn't finish your 2 weeks notice and had concerns whether not finishing could catch up to you, I don't know that it's necessarily cowardly, but that is the closest thing I could find in your questions, but that doesn't necessarily have anything to do with it, just that I look over people's questions to look for clues what it could be about.......
2007-10-26 06:48:42 · answer #3 · answered by beatlefan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you leak out of a relation now
so you feel you miss emotions use to had,
I advice you to have some time alone evaluate your life and see what comes up with
also try to have a peace within your soul that will help to let him go away from your dreams as well your day dreams too
peace love light
2007-10-26 07:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by insightsofmine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible that you don't hate him? If you had sex with him you entered into a bond that is more powerful than you may realize. Sex is for marriage. When you have sex you are joining two souls. You won't really hear this from... well... anyone these days, but it is the truth. I am not saying you should get back with the guy, all I am saying is; don't hate the message or the messenger. Sex is not just something you do for fun.
2007-10-26 06:56:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He meant a lot to you when you were dating. The dream is an echo of those days. You may not get over him but you can move on in life and find someone else.
2007-10-26 10:04:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just wanna give u some advices but before starting I ask u to forgive me for my spelling mistakes and thanks.
Try to stop thinking about him even for a short time .
Do not be near the places which your boyfriend is used to come .
Try to concentrate on your habites such us sport studying.....etc.
2007-10-26 07:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by your friend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just concemtrate your mind elsewhere. it takes time to fade old memories.
2007-10-26 06:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its most probably becase you still love him or you are still angry with him!!
2007-10-26 07:04:32 · answer #9 · answered by Miley's biggest fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋