All categories - 11 October 2007

I have been dating this guy for 2 months now, ( he is 43 years old ), he told me that he has not had sex or even kissed a woman for the past 18 years, and when i asked him why, he told me that it is because he has been very busy working.

But now that we are together, he doesn't want to have sex with me also. It has been 2 months, he wants me to give me oral sex, but he does not want to have sex with me. i have tried everything to make him have sex with me, and he still resist. ( AND HIS ENGINE DOWN BELOW IS WORKING PERFECTLY ).

He told me that it will take a very long time before we have sex together, and it might never happen. He told me that he wants to do everything with me ( like hugging, kissing, foreplay, )everything except sex.

What is happening with this guy ? He has not had sex or even kissed a woman for the past 18 years, and now that he is with me, he still does not want to have sex.

Help me, what is going on with this man ?

2007-10-11 07:38:37 · 5 answers · asked by psychic clara 1 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone had mucous globs coming out for the majority of their pregnancy?

2007-10-11 07:38:30 · 4 answers · asked by Melanie S 1 in Pregnancy

I need help! my friend is getting married and would like to do this before the big day.

2007-10-11 07:38:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2007-10-11 07:38:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Insurance & Registration

Am I a bad person for wanting to take my nephew away from his mother knowing he is not in good hands? Loveless, abusive relationship.

2007-10-11 07:38:09 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm doing a research project and I hardly use the internet so I have difficulty paraphrasing stuff that I find. If you can, please paraphrase the following 3 paragraphs for me. thanks.

Vatna: The cleansing ceremony On the eve before the wedding, the bride and groom (at their respective homes) are cleansed with turmeric paste. This ceremony is performed to cleanse and cool the body, and signifies the cleansing of the soul. 'Uptan' is a paste made of sandalwood, turmeric and rose water, this is applied by seven married female members of the families, to the face, hands and feet of the bride and groom.

After this ceremony the bride and the groom are barred from exposing themselves to the elements (environmental, physical & emotional) till the wedding ceremony.

Mehendi (Henna): Decking up the bride The 'Mehendi' celebration is a lighthearted affair with no religious connotation. Henna is the eco friendly and natural tattoo paste made from the roots of the Henna plant. It has the unique property of soothing and cooling the wearer.

This event has no pre designate time in the flow of ceremonies, normally forming a continuation of sangeet, the ladies of the house draw intricate patterns on their hands, arms and feet. The most intricate and complicate patters being reserved for the bride. In some households the groom too is given a spot on the pals the benefit from the properties of Henna.

Sangeet: Musical night Sangeet is a musical affair celebrating the joysness of the occasion. Usually held in conjunction with the 'mehendi' ceremony, is primarily a ladies function, held by each household separately for their guests.

Traditional marriage songs are sung to the beat of the drum.


Chuda Chadana The white bangles This ceremony is also held on the morning of the wedding. The pundit does a puja and the bride's maternal uncles give her a set of choodas (21 bangles in red and white ivory) after washing them in milk. As per tradition, the bride should ideally wear these for at least a year. Nowadays the bride wears the chooda for a month and a quarter.
For the bride's mother and father the maternal uncle gets gifts - nanke chaak.
As a symbol of best wishes and blessings, the sisters, sister-in-law and friends tie kaleeras made of thin silver and plated with gold on an iron bangle worn by the girl.

2007-10-11 07:38:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

bath tub! They play in there all the time. They like to get into the tub after I have taken a shower. They like to tip over their water dishes ~ WHY IS THAT?

2007-10-11 07:38:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Cats

So i lost my voice for 2 weeks and now im training to get it back any tips other then the breathing control ,and hitting the notes tell reaching the highest i can now,cause i really gotta work fast before a gig...

2007-10-11 07:38:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singing

Pre-Friday drinking question.

Bottoms up!

2007-10-11 07:37:51 · 16 answers · asked by Emperor Insania Says Bye! 5 in Religion & Spirituality

2007-10-11 07:37:49 · 9 answers · asked by Rumor 1 in Cooking & Recipes

I saw an add in my local newspaper and I am curious to see how legit this is.

2007-10-11 07:37:45 · 4 answers · asked by Brina 4 in Theater & Acting

I smoke, drink, have sex with men, use (some) illegal substances, curse, don't believe in any god(s), and make fun of those worse off than me. What are the chances of me going to this hell thing y'all talk about?

Oh, I also go to a public university. That pretty much damns me immediately, right?

2007-10-11 07:37:45 · 27 answers · asked by Dick 2 in Religion & Spirituality

2007-10-11 07:37:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Movies

if you were living at that time, what were some famous tourist spots? i need at least 5

2007-10-11 07:37:29 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

2007-10-11 07:37:15 · 8 answers · asked by Dane Cruz 5 in Polls & Surveys

2007-10-11 07:37:14 · 8 answers · asked by NUAHS 1 in Diabetes

I had a balance of £450, and transfered £650 to pay it off instead....what happens to the £200 surplus??

2007-10-11 07:37:13 · 13 answers · asked by Gary T 1 in Credit

I Ain't In Checotah Anymore? I justed wanted to know the lryics because that song reminds me of when I used to live in the South and how I always visited my grandparents who live in Oklahoma. T.I.A ya'll

2007-10-11 07:37:08 · 15 answers · asked by .Forever Young. 4 in Country

so my mom found this quilt names "youve stolen my heart" its really cute i was going to make it for my boyfriend for christmas but we cant find it anywhere. can someone please help. its a quilt and it has hearts on it and then it has one heart missing. i need your help or where i can look. please. and thank you i need to start working on this project for him.

2007-10-11 07:37:06 · 7 answers · asked by brittybabey00 2 in Hobbies & Crafts

2007-10-11 07:37:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Software

can you sing

2007-10-11 07:37:03 · 51 answers · asked by David 6 in Polls & Surveys

2007-10-11 07:37:03 · 5 answers · asked by CESAR V 2 in Engineering

For example, one candidate just annouced that a $2,500 tax credit will be given as part of his medical plan. What do you predict will be offered next (i.e. tax cut, spending, etc.)? Or, please share whay you know has already been offered. Curious.

2007-10-11 07:37:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Elections

Does anyone know if there is a demo out there for this game. It looks awesome to me and I really want to try it out.

2007-10-11 07:36:57 · 2 answers · asked by Derrek 1 in PlayStation

Since a couple of days ago I have been having excruciating back pains.. Lower and Mid... braxton hicks contractions alot more often then a few weeks ago...I've been getting cramps and sharp pains in my upper belly.. the baby is already really low. I have 2 urinary tract infections since i got pregnant and they will not go away even with my prescription meds.. im getting so worried that he will be born early because of this... i have an appt on monday should i wait and just tell my doc or go to the er???

2007-10-11 07:36:57 · 12 answers · asked by Keri 3 in Pregnancy

Every time I turn the T.V. on, that's all I hear. Britney Spears this, and Britney Spears that. There are other issues going on in this world that are way more important than her.

2007-10-11 07:36:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

problem: fear # 1 roller coasters/ 1st career choice air force pilot.( friends brother took me for a ride in a f-16) i did fine.

problem: fear#2 parachuting/ 2nd career choice pararescumen USAF. (never been parachuting before)

2007-10-11 07:36:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Mental Health

I'm a 14year old, straight guy and like being thought of as one of the girls.
About a year ago I told my Mum I didn't like being a guy and she said it was just my hormones and that it would pass, ok that might be hormones because I only started feeling like that when I was 10 and I have to admit I don't want to be a girl as much anymore but I still didn't really like being treat like a boy so I told my friends about it and they didn't except me so I made some new friends who did, one of them being my exgirlfriend who I told after she dumped me and now they all treat me like a girl but when i'm at home I have to hide all of that because my Mum doesn't really want to except one of her children being transgender or whatever but I hate being thought of as a boy and it's only really my family and people who I don't talk to who think of me as a boy now but I just want my family to except me, I mean when I told my Mum that I wanted to be a girl she had ago at me for it.
How can I get them..

2007-10-11 07:36:10 · 14 answers · asked by Lily R 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

other than the original spag bol, etc .

2007-10-11 07:36:06 · 24 answers · asked by jenniferthomas89 2 in Cooking & Recipes

2007-10-11 07:36:05 · 22 answers · asked by melli 1 in Newborn & Baby