I have been dating this guy for 2 months now, ( he is 43 years old ), he told me that he has not had sex or even kissed a woman for the past 18 years, and when i asked him why, he told me that it is because he has been very busy working.
But now that we are together, he doesn't want to have sex with me also. It has been 2 months, he wants me to give me oral sex, but he does not want to have sex with me. i have tried everything to make him have sex with me, and he still resist. ( AND HIS ENGINE DOWN BELOW IS WORKING PERFECTLY ).
He told me that it will take a very long time before we have sex together, and it might never happen. He told me that he wants to do everything with me ( like hugging, kissing, foreplay, )everything except sex.
What is happening with this guy ? He has not had sex or even kissed a woman for the past 18 years, and now that he is with me, he still does not want to have sex.
Help me, what is going on with this man ?
2007-10-11 07:38:37 · 5 answers · asked by psychic clara 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh My goodness. There is something wrong. Just tell him you want to know why.Tell him that if you two are going to be together and further the relationship that he can't hide anything from you. Love is based on trust. And trust me girl if he is hiding things from you and you are miserable its not worth it. You better get this straight with him now , dont get more involved and fall in love and get hurt when he tells you the truth years down the road. good luck.
2007-10-11 07:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by baddestbitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like his engine may be blown up there! (If you know what I mean) He has deep, deep issues that have not been discussed, or better yet treated!! I would be very leery of someone who does not want to be intimate. VERY LEERY!
If you haven't done the oral thing yet, I would keep from that as well! good luck, best wishes for you both!
2007-10-11 14:54:30 · answer #2 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already posted this (and multiple postings are a violation).
I'd suggest you move on. He's allowed to feel as he desires, but no sex is a dealbreaker for me.
2007-10-11 14:43:41 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet his arms are really tired....
Wait....you HAVE asked this ALOT!!!
HE's a f@ggot, ok? You're just his "cover up"....
When you go down on him, he's imagining some man's lips wrapped around his tool....
Offer him anal, and I bet he goes for it, but don't be surprised when he calls out Tim's name....
2007-10-11 14:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is hung like a field mouse
2007-10-11 15:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by K O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋