Adult married children of a couple repeated ask of their mother to attend family get-togethers where her former husband and new wife are to attend. The Wife was abused ( emotional /spousal raped etc) by him. had protection order on him once.They blame her for NOT forgiving him, yet don't believe her, & say he has changed..? The Ex lied regarding the mother , children believe him. She is remarried, the new husband is very compassionate and respects her. He too doesn't want to be around the EX, who in court got a religious leader to breach confidentiality to harm her, with a lie ex told of her. There's proof of his actions, but no one wants to believe, tapes and his handwritten threats.. She is ill, they don't care. She has had to separate from them and her mother, to protect herself emotionally . She wants resolve, be close to grandchildren. they think they are right.. it 's not who's right or wrong, it's about doing what's right. telling the truth.. she said. shes so depressed..
2007-09-05
22:51:51
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