I've been dating this girl for awhile now and there are times when she feels that I need to be:
1) More affectionate - I feel the amout of affection I give is the equal amount to anyone else's in a relationship
2) More sensitive - Sensitivity isn't a guy thing. I'm not on a macho path, I'm just not the kind of person who reveals his personal feelings 24/7
I'm more laid-back, mature, and calm, whereas she can be stressed out and juvenile. This is my first relationship, so she's in more control, yet whenever we have "talks" about me being more of the above, I get sent on a guilt trip and try to change to make her happy. But it doesn't make me happy.
I also don't find it neccessary that if you're looking for that someone, and the one you're with isn't "the one", you shouldn't have to mold them into their Prince Charming.
I've had serious thoughts of breaking up with her, but I'm not sure how to break it to her.
2007-07-12
14:44:59
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