I am dealing with a serious dilemna. I gave my heart and soul away 15 years ago to someone and never got it back. He left. Not for someone else, but he left because the stress from his family and mine took its toll. I got involved with another man, had a child, and eventually ended up marrying this man. I loved him, but I could never get over my first love. And we found each other recently, both realizing that we still love each other. I don't want to hurt my family, especially my children. But my heart belongs to someone else. I tried so many times to let him go, and he tried to let me go. But we are still very much in love with each other. My husband and I have always had problems not getting along...so my question is "Is this fate"? I know the cliche that if you love someone, let them go...and if they return, it is meant to be. But I do have a family...i don't know what to do....I am not a whore, or slut.....but my heart is not in my marriage anymore...and it probably never was.
2007-06-24
09:04:37
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creamy2005
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Marriage & Divorce