I have a friend who got engaged after only dating for a month or two. I'm afraid that they decided to get married when they were still in the lovey dovey phase, and now it seems to be waring off. Before he proposed, she was very affectionate, and now she's not anymore, and says that that's just the way she is. She just seems totally wrong for him. He wants constant affection, someone to cook for him, and he loves the outdoors and the heat. She seems cold and distant, isn't very affectionate, actually told her friends that he's a big kid who needs to grow up, she doesn't cook, she owns a restaurant, but won't even bring food home,works the opposite hrs that he does so they never spend time together, hates the heat. This is her 1st marriage & she's 40 and wants kids. It's his 3rd, he's 48, and doesn't want kids. I'm afraid she just sees this as her last chance. I want 2 b a good friend, but I'm not sure that supporting the marriage is the best way. He's been hitting on another woman too.
2007-06-24
09:14:08
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Julie
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Marriage & Divorce