Long story short. My wife and I are 26, have been married almost 2 years, and together almost 7 years. Last year I found out that she was having an affair. I stood by her, even while she continues to have the affair, and she finally ended it with him, and we have been back together for a year since then. She says their relationship was not sexual at all. Her and I did not have sex before we were married, and that didn't improve much afterwards either. We have not had sex since January of 2006, which was right before the affair. We occasionaly "mess around", but not all that often. When we do, she very rarely lets me touch her or pleasure her. If I mak the first move, she says I'm pushy or annoying. If I ask, sh gets bothered. We also do not kiss at all, if I try, she moves away. I try to be romantic, helpful, all of that stuff, and nothing works, She finally realizes this is a problem and says she wants help. Any advice for me, or her would be greatly appreciated.
2007-06-24
08:54:40
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I.M. Worried
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Marriage & Divorce