My partner has 2 kids..16 and 11..I have been with her for 8 yrs. I teach, she works retail, so the hours are opposite..I always get stuck taking care of the kids..she told me that it was my responsibility to take care of them, I stated it was my responsibility to help. Well, tonight she informed me that she was taking her employees out to dinner on tuesday, at 9pm. I asked if it was going to be a late night, she stated she didn't know. I told her that I wished she would have asked if I minded keeping the 11 yr old who has ADHD, since I am with everyday, ALL day. She told me she shouldn't have too, that I am not her parent. That it was getting my permission for her to go. I do all the cooking, cleaning, yard work, taking the kids to EVERY appointment. I am tired and I can't get her to talk without taking it personal. She states that I think she is awful. I don't I just think she is selfish. I have given for 8 full yrs and would like a thank you rather than me assuming. Am I wrong?
2007-06-09
18:13:02
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luvnmyboxer3
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Marriage & Divorce