i as with a girl for 4 years. we separated coz of long distance and religious differences. she broke up with me several times, but only out of anger and despair as opposed to logic and deliberation. a couple yrs ago, she told me, b/coz of family pressure, she was going to get engaged. she still loved me deeply. but, she also wanted me in her life as a friend, or whatever. around that time, i was about to move to a new town. so, i left town w/o giving her my contact--we had stopped speaking a couple of months prior. i left her a message that the only way i can stay in her life is as her b/f, and that i can't just be friends. so this gone for a couple of years. in the meantime, my contact information is leaked to her. then a few days ago, she calls me n we jus talk about nothing, as if n'ing had happened. again, i have to give her the same ultimatum. either we become a couple or nothing. she had never been engaged, not even close. so now i haven't talked to her in two days. any thoughts?
2007-04-11
19:06:25
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