I like this girl and I dont know if she likes me or not and i dont know if she even knows that i like her. She goes to an out of state school and I known her for 4 months. I want to text her and see how she is doing but i dont want to be seen as the nice guy or the friend you know. I think I might be there already but there is no definite sign. its funny because she is usually the one who ALWAYS initiates the text convo's, just to say hi or whatever.
After hanging out during break, She wants me to go visit her at college soon and spend the day together going places. not sure if shes interested or not cuz i kept getting mixed signals.
Is it wrong to not text someone when u like them to see how they are doing?
what can i text her that will make her laugh in a flirtatious way and also avoid being too "friendly" but hinting to her that i like her/see how her day went and what she is up to? im new to this texting stuff. and not the greatest flirter..thanks for your help.
2007-04-11 19:08:16 · 16 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Text her!!!!
2007-04-11 19:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by GreekQT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all bro, a girl would not give you that much attention if she didn't like you. She is giving you mixed messages because maybe she is not sure if you like her. You should definitely text her. And here is the best way to text her to be flirty not too forward but at the same time its complimenting her. Just always remember GIRLS LOVE COMPLIMENTS. So the next time she invites you to hangout with her text her back by saying there is nothing better you would do than to spend the day with someone as pretty as her. Beauty compliments show interest. But always remember if she has no interest there is always always more fish in the sea. But i got a good feeling about this. Good luck.
2007-04-11 19:20:12 · answer #2 · answered by charmer23s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she initiates contact first, there's nothing wrong with you doing it first for once. May-be she likes you, and thinks you don't like her because she always initiates. There's a reason she initiates contact, she's obviously thinking about you. You'll never know what can be, if you don't try to make it so. She obviously likes you at least as a friend (if not more). If she doesn't want to be more now, may-be she'll come around. You won't know until you try. Send something like, "Hey, beautiful, just wanted to see how it's going!" Or, something more subtle, "Having a bad day, wish I could see your smile!"
2007-04-11 19:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do better then that, Call her, invite her out if your in town, Don't text because then it to me shows that you don't like using the phone, talking on aim is great and texting on your phone is something else, but if you like someone i really suggest that you call them and talk to them there. Because then you can hear their expression over the phone and feel what they say ect. Good Luck!
2007-04-11 19:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by natali3x3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text her! Just a HI, how are you getting on. Don't worry.
2007-04-11 19:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 words... TEXT HER...
its sooo not wrong to text someone when you like them to see how they are doing...
text her anything that comes out from your mind!
good luck!
2007-04-11 19:19:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should set up plans to go see her at school, then when you get there make a move. Don't be a wuss, take off the skirt and go for it.
2007-04-11 19:12:02 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. King 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont text her that is a stupid idea.
Just talk to her in person
2007-04-11 19:21:15 · answer #8 · answered by Dillon C (who else) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely text her. Tell her you can't get her off your mind. "thinking of you" messages are very nice to get.
Have fun with it. Send cool pix messages.
2007-04-11 19:12:27 · answer #9 · answered by siddoly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ya text her and just see how things are going and keep it going from there
2007-04-11 19:19:04 · answer #10 · answered by mara3718 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you want to eat a slice of muffpie.
2007-04-11 19:11:24 · answer #11 · answered by Mister D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋