and havnt talked to in awhile,is used to getting all the attention from guys, has found out from my cousin (her mom) that i have met a really nice guy. she just called me the other day said she just broke up with her bf and wants to come stay with me and wants to meet my b/f...
i just think she wants to flaunt her stuff and get his attention
she is prettier than me, i am reallly shy and careful with my feelings and its hard for me to be close to someone, i have opened up to my b/f and im afraid she will flirt with him.
i am not unnatractive but im insecure
she is tall skiiny blnd w/ sm bst blue eyes
i am short skinny bsty light brn/red hr grn eyes
i dont know what to do??
she has made me feel like crap on purpose before (she likes to make me jealous) and im afraid for my feelings.
hope i make sense..sorry for all the run ons..etc im in a hurry..
2007-04-11 19:04:06 · 6 answers · asked by jenny m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is a hard situation but try not to worry about it too much. It sounds like your cousin is just as insecure of herself though she doesn't show it and tries to prove that she is attractive to herself by flaunting herself. As for the relationship with your boyfriend, well if he really is in to you and cares for you then he won't let your cousin come between you but if he does then maybe he isn't the one that was meant for you and you are better off with out him. Also believe it or not there are some guys out there that aren't attracted to tall blond haired blue eyed girls and chances are since he is with you then he is one of them that isn't.
2007-04-11 19:10:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you want to spend some quality time with your boyfriend and that she should understand the circumstances. And that you would like to hang out with her but you prefer to make it a girls night in/out which means no boys allowed. Maybe this helps.
2007-04-12 02:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by CHEEKS69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stay home, you are not in the right frame of mind for company right now. Keep her away from your guy, and your home. I have know those type before. Users is what I call them.
2007-04-12 02:09:23 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't let her come over it seems she is trying to cause problems for you and your BF, trust me I know what I'm talking about. You seem like a nice girl and your cousin seems like a complete *****. I feel like she wants to come over a flirt with your BF and make you feel like crap again don't give her that satisfaction to come over and do that to you again.
2007-04-12 02:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her, you will be noticed by the person that counts
2007-04-12 02:07:46 · answer #5 · answered by crazychick1975 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her u don't want her to come. dont let her come over. u gotta put urself first
2007-04-12 02:07:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋